I met the most perfect man, I mean it literally was as if I have met my soulmate, the one I am going to be with the rest of my life, and I have faith he is the person. We are so perfect for each other it's amazing. The problem is that he is at a very busy time in his life, with work, and he is been serverely in his previous relationship. He would like to take things slow with me as he is not ready right now, he would like to be friends so he dosn't mess anything up with me. He told me he has never met anyone like me, and I agree Should I wait for this man? My heart and faith tells me I should.
2006-07-28 07:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by Rose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is extreamly old fashioned, and wants to wait to have sex.
2006-07-28 07:13:46 · update #1
follow your heart. he sounds like he is taking baby steps, which is what he should do when getting out of a hurtful relationship. u don't want him to be able to hurt you because of his insecurities, sounds like he also care about ur feelings in this case. if u think u can wait, do it patiently and willingly. don't let it sour how u feel about him when he takes longer than u want, etc. it is something he needs to deal w/ himself....it's wonderful that u've met someone that u are this connected to. its possible that he may be the one, and it's possible he may not, but it's worth it to hold on to someone who you think is worthy enough to be with you. later on, if he changes his mind, or if u change ur mind, remember what you want in a relationship and don't compromise it. as long as ur comfortable w/ the situation at hand, it will be ok. God will show you what is right. if u become uncomfortable, untrusting of him, or he doesn't make sense to you, it is an indicator that you have to watch out.
2006-07-28 07:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he worth the wait? You said God brought you this man, then should be having to ask this question. What is the hurry? Yes, take time to get to really know this man. I respect him for wanting to wait for sex, and wanting to take time. Make the most of the time you do get to spend together. Make every moment count. But he does need to understand there is more to life than work. Is this work problem temporay or does he have a demanding job 24/7. Because if it 24/7 you are going to have to be very understanding, and expect that you will be doing alot of things by yourself. Like a doctor on call, their spouses have to attend weddings, anniversaryies, and important events by theirselves alot. So, that is something to think about. If he's worth it then honey take the time, Enjoy, love, and be happy. God bless us all........
2006-07-28 07:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you deeply feel that God has brought him to you then be patient..as they say "Patience is a Virtue"...wait until he is ready because if you rush him you will only push him away and then live to regret it, just remain his good friend (and not his sex buddy) and he will thank you for that in the long run...and dont mind that previous statement about mere mortals they are just being a jack ***
2006-07-28 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by shorty44dd4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not commit adultery
Exodus 20;14
The commandment means what it says .
Boyfriend or not sin is sin!
If you want God in your relationship then you must honor those commandments ,not just one but all .
Matthew 15;19
Refrain from even thinking of that sin
Prayer really does work!
Matthew 6;33
Wait
Isaiah 40;31
2006-07-28 08:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by cadac1946@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find out if God sent him or not. Be patient. Take things very slowly and enjoy each moment together. All things will be revealed in time. Pray and accept any signs God sends.
2006-07-28 07:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him, take your time developing the relationship, and whatever you do, don't have sex with him. That way you'll find out if he's serious about you or if he just wants someone who will provide a convenient booty call without demanding anything more from him.
2006-07-28 07:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go slow like he is saying dont rush enjoythe friendship and then when you 2 see that things are moving along you can become more than friends yes wait for him good luck
2006-07-28 07:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want/need God's answer, why are you wasting time asking us mere mortals?
2006-07-28 07:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by westcrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your God tell you?
2006-07-28 07:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋