Ethical real life question. What would stop you from having an affair with a good-looking, athletic, funny, doctor? Ethics or the fear of getting caught? Or would anything stop you at all?
2006-07-28 07:05:15 · 23 answers · asked by buri035 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One thing that would stop me is not being attracted to him. But if I was single and we were attracted to each other - it's up to him to do the "stopping", I wouldn't have much to lose, he'd be the one taking all the risks.
2006-07-28 07:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dag...that sounds like the doctor I had an affair with (smile)...and it was good while it lasted but coming from first hand experience its really not worth it, you tell yourself "oh i won't catch feelings and I am just having a good time" or he is constantly telling you that he and his wife are on bad terms have been for years and he wants to leave her but he doesn't want to loose what he has worked so hard for, and then he tells you that "there is just something about you and he cant stay away from you and he has feelings for you", girl don't get caught up in the hype about him being a doctor and good looking and everything, if he really means any of the things he tells you then he will be the bigger man and leave his wife to be happy but lets face it he wont do it because he do sent want to come up out of his pocket.
2006-07-28 14:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by shorty44dd4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ETHICS!!!! He is MARRIED and the fact that a married anyone would be willing to step outside said marriage for any reason speaks volumes about that person's fidelity and general sense of morals which SHOULD tell the 3rd person that THEY could expect no less from that person if it bacame a situation where he/she left their patners for the 3rd party. The person is practicing their own free will at the expense of the one thing they SHOULD value above all else and the fact that they are willing to do that says that that something is not as high of value as it SHOULD be! I would stay clear of a situation like that. It only spells doom for everyone EXCEPT the married person who ventured down this road. That person wins either way. Either he gets his cake and eats it too, OR he loses both parties and thus is free to explore others. Either way it will only work out to the advantage of the person doing the cheating!
2006-07-28 14:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
If you are married your wife should dump you for just asking that question!!
"a good-looking, athletic, funny, doctor? "
Well your advertising-- I hope you get busted!
Men such as your self should be ashamed!!
Ethics tells a person to live by their scruples, which it seems to me YOU DO NOT HAVE!!
what would you think or feel if browsing through here you found a similar question and -- it was YOUR wife asking the question!
How would you feel?
People with your attitude about marriage should NOT be married!
2006-07-28 14:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is not of getting caught or not.Its about respecting ones body and mind.Obviously,as Oscar wilde put it,"a married man is a married womans property!!"Oh,no not me,i would die single rather than get involved with a married man,its so unjust unfair and cruel a woman could do to another woman in a most insulting way!!
2006-07-28 15:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER have an affair! I am faithful to a fault with my fiance. I was even faithful to my lying, cheating ex husband for 20 years! Cheating hurts everyone. And even if you get a guarantee that you won't get caught, it will eat at you. Cheating is disrespectful to yourself, your partner, and others involved with you and the one you cheat with. It is morally wrong and I wouldn't even dream about it!
2006-07-28 14:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't wanna be some jerk dog's sloppy seconds!! i'm better than that, i wanna be number one in a guys life! besides there are sooooo many great single guys out there without the baggage of being married and cheating, why get tangled up with a married one, even if he is a doctor. also he doesn't sound that great, handsome, athletic etc.....but look at his morals!!
2006-07-28 14:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn;t. I'm a smart person and I know that I deserve a normal relationship, and being second to someone else is not on my schedule. There are plenty of successfull good looking single men aout there to choose from.
Also, I would not do to someone what I would not want to be done to me, and for the sake of respect to myself and his wife, I would never cross that line and inflict pain to someone else.
Good luck
2006-07-28 14:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own self-respect would stop me from getting involved with a married man. A man who is willing to cheat on his wife is not the type of man I want to be around. He is self-centered and uncaring about the feelings of others.
2006-07-28 14:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be good looking, athletic, funny and a doctor but he's missing the most important thing of all......a heart. Does that answer your question?
2006-07-28 14:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋