I have been in a relationship now for 6 month, would you call it right or respectful for someone to continue to talk to someone else they met on a dating site, if they never hooked up? My boyfriend thinks that nothing is wrong if he talks to this girl he met on match, who has a kid, who my boyfriend has a close relationship with. He talks to her like 3 to four times a week, and writes her emails that tell her how wonderful she is. Plus he tells her all that is going on in our relationship, when something bad is going on with us, he crys on her shoulder. He has only known her since Xmas. Am I wrong for asking him to reconsider their relationship?
2006-07-28 07:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by sag79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes......you should ask him to reconsider YOUR relationship.
2006-07-28 07:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's hard to tell what he's telling her. You don't know. I think it's sounds wierd. Maybe before you let him know that this isn't right, you should ask if it would be okay if you talk to her too. Just find her for yourself, under your own name or disguise it if you want to, and just ask her yourself what is going on. Some people like to call this kind of "asking" psycho, stalking, or something, but it's not. It's just nice to know sometimes what the other person says about it, when they really don't know what to say. Good luck. I've been there before. The internet causes a lot of problems in relationships.
2006-07-28 07:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds weird. You're right to ask him to stop; if all you've written here is true, what he's doing is ridiculous. I have close (female) buddies, and I don't talk to them 3 times a week AND send e-mails with details of my personal relationship. He's living in a fantasy world, and needs to grow up and get back to reality - if you and your feelings are at all important to him. If he has a problem with the way your relationship is going, he needs to be talking to YOU.
2006-07-28 07:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to make it real simple for you:
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The numbers you put up are UNacceptable for guy in a committed relationship. 3 or 4 times a month, maybe and thats only if they were friends YEARS before you met and got together.
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He's going to her for advice and consoling in regards to your relationship.
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2006-07-28 08:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Serious Business 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋