hi.. iam talking about a very beautiful lady who works in my office but is in other division, due to which i do not get a chance to communication... Whenever she passes by or we cross each other ,, i just skip a heart beat.
2006-07-28 07:00:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Under normal circumstances you should stay away from this woman for two reasons. One, she is married and two you both work at the same place. Now, having said that there are always exceptions to the rule. So, if she happens to be in an open relationship with her husband or they are swingers, then rule number one is not a problem. From your question it sounds like you both work in different areas of the company and do not have to work together on a day to day basis. If that is the case, you may be able to make a workplace romance work, again assuming rule number one doesn't apply for reason mentioned above. Whatever your decision, good luck to you and remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't waste time trying to steal one that is already in someone else's boat. :)
2006-07-28 07:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by funcd4play 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
SHE'S MARRIED! You should be man enough to respect that she is married and you should not tell her you're attracted to her. You can give her compliments from time to time, but not too often, if you must because most women enjoy a compliment. Just think if you were married and some guy is telling your wife that he is attracted to her. Wouldn't you be a little upset? You also need to be careful in your office because it could become a conflict of interest for you to be "flirting/admiring" someone you work with and you don't want to lose your job over it, right?
2006-07-28 07:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no dont do it cause honestly it will only cause problems. How would you feel if you were married and some other man approached your wife. I would say you will ether get an *** beaten or even worse she could put a restraining order on you. Trust me just keep it to yourself. Plus how ackward would it be after you told her and she is like hello I am married and then totally iqnores you all at once. All that needs to know is you.
2006-07-28 07:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I'm sure that your feelings are very overwhelming because you are seeking advice. But, you have to ask yourself what will be the out come of telling her your feelings. Are you looking for an affair, for her to leave her husband or to just stroke her ego. Either way she is a married woman and a lot of responsibility comes with being in a commitment an it would be even harder if someone outside that commitment attempted to intrude.
Marriage is sacred and special. My advice to you is to keep your feelings, and thoughts to yourself unless she gets a divorce. Starting this would not be fair to you or to her. Peace and blessings
2006-07-28 07:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by dec121478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard when you get the hots for someone that isn't appropriate, but we can't help how are feelings are. We have to learn to be mature enough to deny ourselves that which we crave when we will most certainly be hurting another person. You sure wouldn't want it to happen to you. If the crush is just too strong, change jobs.
That's no way to build character and a personal set of standards that allow you to respect yourself.
2006-07-28 07:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by tweak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be very careful when you are dealing with your workplace. I myself have gotten involved with a married man that iI met through my workplace. Things are on the brink of bieng over ans now we both can feel the tension that is there . Do you know anything about her besides her bieng married?? If i were you i would just be careful and try to supress your feeling and fine someone who is more avvailne
2006-07-28 07:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a question of personal values. I think most people would say that getting involved with a married woman at work is unprofessional, unacceptable, unethical, immoral, and simply wrong. If you feel there is something redeeming about tempting a woman into adultery and don't think that destroying a marriage is such a bad thing....I say Go for It!!!!
2006-07-28 07:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by hersh108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even communicated with her .. sounds like your feelings for her are all in your pants. Grow up, get real. Don't let your genitals do your thinking for you. Real life is nothing like Bollywood romances. Take a cold shower, indulge in some self-pleasuring, and leave this poor woman alone!
2006-07-28 07:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by askios007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is married!!!!! How would you like it if you were married to the love of your life and another man tried to take her away from you. Find your own woman there is so many out there for you.
2006-07-28 07:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T even think about messing around with that lady... SHE'S FREAKIN MARRIED!!! if you do, not only will you regret it.... you will also riun a lot of people's lives including her, her husband, and her kids (if she has any)..... it's probably just a crush.... go find someone else that is not married, don't have a bf, or UNATTACHED!!!!
2006-07-28 07:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋