I have been best friends w/ my bff every since like K5. Now that were teenagers she goes every where w/ boys and has bfs all the time. she dont ever want to do anything w/ me w/o (with out) a boy being involved in it!!! Now we are bout to go to high skool in about a year and she might not go to the same high skool that i go to. Sometimes she gets on my nerves but i cant be w/o her!!!! I love her to dealth cuz were like sisters........what am i goin to do w/o her?? HELP PLEASE
2006-07-28 07:00:11 · 7 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some girls think that they need to be around a guy just to feel important. Unfortunately, that my cause some serious problems between a girl and her girlfriends. Well......the best thing for you to do is to take into consideration that everyone goes through changes throughout their lives. Some changes maybe harder than others. It may seem that you might not be able to get through high school with out her but in all actuality, you are probably better off with out her. If she thinks that boys are more important than her best friend, then she wasn't your best friend in the first place. Boyfriends come and go, friends are there forever. I think that you should try to make some new friends. I know that sounds difficult but you will be a lot happier in the long run once you realize that having only one friend isn't the best choice in the world. Trust me......through your life you will need several friends to get through several different types of situations. Good luck and just try to let her go. If she doesn't want to be around you then you should try to be around someone who does.
2006-07-28 07:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by pinkglitter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not a good friend as far as bein there for u and caring for your feelings goes but i understand that u love her and u want things to go back to the way they used to. good old kindergarten. but ppl grow up and things and other ppl influences her tomake wrong choices. just when u go off to high school tell her u love her and u always have. try to help her with that boy thing if u keep in touch after u go off to high school. no boy is worth spendin that much time over at our age. (i'm goin into 8th grade, i have the same problems)
2006-07-28 14:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, boys are the number subject for us teenage girls, so give her a chance and ask her why does she always have to have a boy with her and what about just girl stuff that you could do together and share secrets. that will probably make her think twice.
2006-07-28 14:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happened to be before except she wasn't with a boy all the time she was with druggies all the time and she sarted doing drug..andwe talk every now and then but not very much anymoe, you'll get over it. find a new friend and build friendship with her. have you tried telling her you'd like it to be just you and her??
2006-07-28 14:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older you will seperate...but when things get hard you will both be there for each other. But as you get into High School you will meet more people and make more friends.
2006-07-28 14:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by hhsgirl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am having the same thing happen to me with me friend minus the boys. ask her if u could go somewhere without them. good luck! i understand what ur going through.
2006-07-28 14:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Wobble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't seem being a good friend to you if she's like that.
2006-07-28 14:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋