How can I feel more self conscious???

Question

Well you see I hate myself I just wish I didn't I just can't help it ya know I mean I look in the mirror and see something that i wsh I wasn't I just wish that I could love myself more and be beautiful inside as well as out

Answer 1

it already sounds like you are self conscious. What you want is self confidence. and it looks like a lost cause

Answer 2

lol..i think u mean more self confident? ;)... self conscious is what u feel right now, which is unsure about urself, worried how u look all the time..

why do u hate urself? trust me, everyone is born w/ their own kind of beauty. u just have to find it, emphasis it, and somehow become comfortable in ur own skin. u can look the very best u can look, and don't compare urself to others. it's a combinations of genes, as well as society's idea of what is "beauty" at this time. it may very well change when u grow older!

if u feel overweight, start adding some daily exercise (walking, running a mile 3 times a week, etc), and eat smaller portions, or just make urself FIT, Healthy; don't focus on just losing pounds, it's way more important, esp at young age, to develop healthy habits. trust me, exercise does Miracles!! even if u eat a lot, if u exercise daily it will help maintain ur weight.

if u feel ugly because of ur skin, make sure u clean ur face twice a day, put lotion on, and don't touch it too much througout the day. ask ur parents to take u to a dermatologist if it reallly bothers you.

if u don't like ur hair, find products that work well w/ ur hair. for example, i have really frizzy hair, so i like this Loreal stuff that smooths and controls. keep searching and trying, u will find something great. if u have time, go to www.makeupalley.com, if u sign up u can get access to people's reviews on make up, hair, etc, and it's pretty informative.

if u don't like ur personality, try harder to be an open minded person. try to make different kinds of friends, open ur heart and mind to find good, positive, healthy things so that u can filter out the negatives. try to encourage urself to learn, study hard, read, understand daily news, etc, so that u will be knowledgable to speak and discuss w/ anyone about interesting subjects. try not to let anyone bring u down; at same time, try not to bring others down w/ ur sad attitude. focus on what you Do have... a great family? good friends? u try to do good things, be a good person? no matter what u've done in the past, it's OK. ur in charge of ur future....u can make a difference, a change in urself. u may not be able to change what others think about you, but u can change how YOU think about urself. eventually they wont' matter to u; the only things that matter to u will be good, and u can love urself because u worked hard to make urself a better person. cheer up and celebrate yourself as a young woman!! as u keep growing, u will see beauty inside urself. trust me, i was a LATE bloomer.. i feel much prettier at 26 than i ever did when i was in h.s., etc.... (and the pretty girls back then don't look so good now haha... =D take care~)

Answer 3

You mean confident, you need to focus on your strengths,what are you good in what do you do for fun? Every one has a best feature eyes,lips,butt what ever play up the things you like or things that other have complimented you on.Also pray,pray every day for strength and guidance,pray for others when we start getting out of ourselves nothing but good comes of it and you feel good about yourself,volunteer some where you have interests,and commit yourself to a special time every day that is just yours for meditation,beauty,or what ever,Love yourself its the key to success

Answer 4

It all starts with how you view yourself, Love yourself, develop yourself and your mind, Hang out and go on dates with yourself, ask others what they like about you, why waste your precious time on earth worrying and wishing to fit in, we were not meant to be wallpaper, embrace your uniqueness. You have to retrain your thoughts so everyday even if you don't feel it at first, wake up and tell yourself I love you and your beautiful. God made you with at purpose in mind, he didn't make any mistake when he created you, you were created in his image, so can you imagine how beautiful he really is. It all starts with you, so are you ready to take that journey to loving yourself and not waste your life hating yourself because no matter what you are always going to be yourself and no one else until its time is up.

Answer 5

Speak to a professional counselor about your low Self Esteem
good luck.

Answer 6

I'd be happy to give you my self consciousness if I could. I'm so self conscious it's not even funny. I don't like being self conscious.....it sucks.

Answer 7

Find yourself a nice, older, attractive, successful sugar daddy and let him help you through the rough times.................