well i really like this girl and i think she likes me. But if i ask her out on a date and it turns out she dosent like me it might runiun our friendship. What should i do ???
2006-07-28 06:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by dusty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if you never ask you will never know...just remain friends for a little longer and see where things go...if she seems really into you then you are good..sometimes girls like to play hard to get..she may be waiting for you to ask her...but on the other hand you do not want to ruin the friendship like you said..but also you could still remain friends if you asked her out...you might not have to give up your friend if you don't work out..i have remained friends with some of my ex's in the past and it worked out..who knows if you never ask her you may be missing out on something special as well as her..just give it to her straight and ask her if you have a chance at dating..she should tell you...and then you'll know what to do from there...
2006-07-28 06:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by EvEl_LiL_kArEbEaR 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It won't ruin your friendship if you are careful in how you ask the question and if you don't overreact if she turns you down. Just ask if she would consider going on a date with you some time. Then let her answer be her answer, either way. If she lets you down, don't pressure her to explain and defend her position, just let it go.
2006-07-28 06:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you find out if you won't ask her out? Take your chances than forever holding your peace (heheheh sounds like a wedding message). My husband did it once. He was my bestfriend and it really took all his courage to tell me what he feels. I didn't like him at first. To me was just a friend. Did I freak out? No. As time went by, I realized he was the man meant for me. In short, if she's really a good friend, she'll understand. Come on dude, MAKE YOUR MOVE!!!
2006-07-28 06:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by klay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. If it turns out she doesn't like you it might ruin your friendship--but it also might not. Is she hot?
2006-07-28 06:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just ask. If you really like her, the only thing that you are doing is standing around waiting. You might as well just ask. Otherwise you could be just wasting your time, pinning over her when she doesn't want you the same way.
2006-07-28 06:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by stlsmlng@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this same problem. Just tell her everything about how u feel, and then say, "now if u don't feel the same way, i don't want to ruin our friendships and what we have now because of this"
It worked fine, dont wry just do it. U will still have ur friend, maybe even a gf.
2006-07-28 06:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance. If she's a real friend, she'll still be your friend afterwards. If she likes you, too, she might end up being your girlfriend. Ask her out!
2006-07-28 06:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a sissy and ask the girl out, but if your under 25 your over it.
2006-07-28 06:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this guy i know asked me if i wanted a boyfriend. i said yes (i've never had one before) thinking, oh well, what harm could he do? (being the pastors' son and all). we never had a date or whatever, and he "broke up with me" but we're still friends.
2006-07-28 06:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by georgetta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of her friends, maybe they know if she likes u. or while u are two are having a conversation, jokingly ask (as in theres no real reason i'm asking i'm just curious sort of way) her if shes into u and hopefully she answers honestly.
2006-07-28 06:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bored silly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋