early preg?

Question

i would kill to have a kid at 15 16 but im 13 now and my mom would hate it i want a girl to name jessica lynn and i am even ready for the cost and everything

i am a lot better than most gurlz and want to do this yung cuz i dont want to go and wait untill 25 or more

also i will be done with school at 15

i am graduating early full degree and everything

Answer 1

Money isnt everything. What about school?? Do u have enough time & energy to dedicate to this child?? U should have a baby when u get older, there is a better chance that the fater will still be around. Your baby should have a father. Any one can be a daddy but it takes a real man to be a father!!

Answer 2

Wow... Okay, heres the deal. Your body isnt even fully matured at 15-16 regardless of what it looks like on the outside. Have you tried taking care of someones kids for a few days seeing how that works out for you? I think you should do that before you get pregnant and you cant have any outside help when you take these kids, you have to do it by yourself because thats what predicament you would be in if you had your own child.

Just exactly what university will you be graduating from in two years? I do hope you didnt mean high school graduation, if so, please be aware that children are expensive and you cant tell them no, or I dont have enough money when they're hungry or need shoes and school supplies. Basically an HS education wont net you much money in the real world. How do you plan to support this child if you're ready for the cost? What job can a 13 year old get that can support a growing infant? Can you even get health insurance on your own. Who is gonna pay the medical bills if the baby gets sick? Yes, insurance will pay some of the visit but lets talk about ER visits or co-pays dont even get me started on medication, you'd be responsible for that. Where are you and Jessica Lynn gonna sleep?

Please rethink this logically.

Answer 3

First of all your are not ready to have a child either mentally physically or emotionally. I am not sure how you think that you are ready for the cost--kids are very expensive--how do you plan on finishing your education. There are also no guarantees of having a girl--I am so hoping that this post is a joke and that there is really not a little girl out there actually thinking of on purpose trying to get pregnant. You aren't even old enough to get a drivers license or a job. Obviously you have a very sad life and need to get some sort of help. A baby won't help whatever it is you are lacking in your life--try to get some help

Answer 4

I know you've probably heard this more than once but here it goes again. Why do you want to have a baby at such a young age? Live your teenage years. Enjoy this time. You have you adulthood to think about kids. That will come quicker than you'll know. Regardless of what the opinions of everyone that answer this question for you, you will do what you feel is right, Just keep in mind that you are talking about another life that YOU will be responsible for. YOU have to take care of this baby. What kind of life can you offer them? Are you prepared to have someone around 24/7? I am having my 1st baby in less than 2 months and am in my 30's and I am scared to death of so many things with our new arrival. Also, do you really know how much the cost of raising a child is? Look it up. You'd be amazed to see that raising a child cost more that buying a house in some areas. Hope you make the right decision in life. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Whoa! Considering the average life expectancy is like 80---don't you think you have a few years you can wait???? I'm 27 and have a 2 year old. Have you checked on daycare prices?
There's so much life ahead of you why try to plan it all out right now?? Take it easy and I hope for your sake that you reconsider and look at the big picture, not just here and now. Would you want Jessica Lynn to be having a baby at 15 to make you a grandma at age 30???????

Answer 6

So basically what you're saying is that you're smart and have a good future ahead of you, and now you want to ruin an innocents babies life because you can't wait until you are financially and emotionally secure enough to handle being a mother. HOW SELFISH ARE YOU? Having a baby IS NOT about what you want, it is about a helpless little being that will depend on you for everything. You said you already have the money lined up??? How? you are 13!! So what? you plan on working full time, plus going to highschool or college, and somewhere in there take care of a baby, and don't forget you'll have to sleep sometime too! Tell you what, why don't you come spend a couple days at mys house, where you can take care of my kids, because believe it or not babies grow up to be kids. Or give me you phone number and every time my baby cries i can call you up and you can listen. They are not just cute and cudly!! So by all means, if you wanna be woke up 3-4 times a night, change poopey diapers, or better yet, how bought the ones that explode the diaper!, be covered in poop, snot, spit-up, milk, and any number of other things on a daily basis. spend your free time cleaning, doing laundry, making formula, and wondering where you're gonna get enough money to pay for your babies next bag of diapers, then go ahead-feel free to act on your idiotic idea!

Answer 7

i'm just about the same age as you i want a child 2 and i thought i would be financially ready but da truth is 2 b ready for a child u would not only have to me financially ready but also emotionally and ready 2 give up everythang 4 your child, it's a big responsibility and takes a lot of work not only dat but it's very stressful too u should at least wait until ur 17 if not dat 16

Answer 8

I would wait becuase girls; we don't stop fully growing until at least 18. It would be kinda like babies having babies, no insult, but see what I mean. The baby will depend so much on you too. There is so much to experience in life- having a baby will take away your younger years to enjoy life and you will have so many responsibilites- that can hinder you from good opportunites. I don't mean to make it sound all bad, because Babies are great, but it should be at the right time. My tip; be close to God, pray about it, and he'll work out everything in his time. (Jessica lynn is a cute name.) Good luck!!

Answer 9

I would wait a few years more, at least until youre 18 or 19.... that way you'll be old enough to sign your kids permission slips for school... as for the name, i like it... im a Jessica Lynn too

Answer 10

you may be ready for the finacial burder but what about the emotional? are you ready to give up any and all social life? I watch my nephew often and i couldn't imagine taking care of him full time. His parents are always tired and they can't do any thing because of him. I would really think about every aspect before you decide to get pregant. if you just want to be around kids get a job babysitting it is alot easier than having your own.