one morning out the blue my wife came 2 me & asked if i was listing to their conversation a week r 2 ago on the other phone. i told her no, then asked her why. she was just asking she said. now when ever her friend calls it's on her cell phone and if we r in the same room together she'll leave the room. i'm i over reacting over nothing?
2006-07-28 06:25:07 · 16 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, check out the situation. If she is cheating, ask yourself why.
1. Are your intimate relations doing okay ?
2. Do you pay enough attention to her ?
3. Do you have a good communication ?
etc, etc,etc.
If she is not cheating--
1. Is there a special occasion coming up ?
2. Income situation okay ?
3. Is a friend or family of hers in some type of problem?
etc,etc,etc.
Need to sit down and talk to her.
2006-07-28 07:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read most of these answers.... and the ones that ask if you two have an anniversary or birthday coming up sounds normal for her actions.
If not! then yes be concerned! but don't snoop, it will only drive you crazy! come straight out and tell her your concerns, and why it bothers you demand the truth but not in a forceful way. Tell her that her actions are bothering you let her know that her phone conversations are bothering you and if they are innocent why does she continue to go into another room. my husband and I both have cell phones but we do not go into another room to talk and if either one did the other would want to know why! You have every right to question her on this.
2006-07-28 07:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a little "fishy" to me, but there may be a reason for it. I would also get up and leave the room if I received a call. I could not hear well with the TV in the background. I also know my ex was listening on the other line when I talked to my grown children. It bothered me to have someone listening because sometimes I needed to say something personal and did not want him to hear. It may be innocent or it may be a sign that she is up to no good. How about a discussion with her?
2006-07-28 06:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely have self assurance you're being paranoid? Ask her why she keeps to be with you whilst it form of feels obvious her affections lie someplace else. If my husband voiced undertaking approximately my chatting with a guy (and that i do have male acquaintances), i could take those concerns very heavily. except you're a weirdo paranoid stalker loopy jealous husband - which i do no longer experience in any respect. i think of you're nicely in line. If I called a guy fifty 3 cases even my laid lower back very unjealous hubby could call me to the carpet. no longer something sturdy is coming from that many calls. no longer something - do you hear me? She parked in the lower back with the aid of fact she knew you would be pissed? what's she sixteen? completely out of bounds. i could boot her. i'm no longer being turn. sometimes people desire a ask your self. they could desire to be responsive to you is surely no longer taken care of like 3 day previous rubbish. If she does not get the ask your self, what have you ever lost. you have tried reason.
2016-10-08 10:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she is probably hiding something, when you are in a relationship, you share practically everything, why not share a phone call? Do the same to her, see if she likes it, sometimes in life you have to turn the table around and give them a dose of their own medicine!
2006-07-28 07:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by priscilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mister cool, i don't like the situation. i know it seems like a small thing, but just the question you have alone, and her not being able to assure you well enough is a problem.
i think you need to start flirting with other women a little bit (you don't have to go out with them), and be more active in your hobbies. spend less time with your wife, but more quality time. do the things YOU want to do with her. if you notice a change in her behavior to you, something is wrong and you need to make a decision on what to do.
2006-07-28 06:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Robert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be suspicious of who she was talking to and what she was talking about. Married people shouldn't have secrets. Unless it's close to a special occassion (ex. anniversary, birthday) where she may be planning a surprise, I don't see a reason that she couldn't talk around you. I would check the phone bills.
2006-07-28 06:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be planning something, but, then if nothings coming up, then I would definitely be curious about it.... Sounds wierd to me, so NO, Id say you arent over reacting.... Do some detective work!
2006-07-28 06:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is trust in your marriage, what is the problem, I know that at times, I like my privacy when talking to my friends. If you trust her, then you are overreacting, if you don't trust her you have a problem which is more serious than her talking to her friend in private. Without trust, you will not know when to react at all.
2006-07-28 07:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think something is going on there. Be a little concerned and keep an eye on your wife.
2006-07-28 06:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋