what would you do if the man you loved was in love with someone else? would you still tell him.?

Question

same sitch.

Answer 1

This is a if question. If the object of your affection has found what he believes is his soul mate and every one marvels at their love and if they can't bare to be apart.

If you truly love him, leave him alone.

Now if you feel that she is not worthy of him and he truly cares for her but without passion and depth. then you have to start asking him questions about love. What he expects and what he's willing to give. Explain to him what love is to you and that you feel , he deserves better

ask him to practice with you on two sheets of paper everything you expect on one side and everything you're willing to give on the other and exchange papers.

Ask him to do the same with her. Now you are getting into his head and his heart. your position grows by the minute if he indicates hoe wonderful you are , now is the time to reveal the secrets of your heart with a loving tearful embrace.

Answer 2

If he's in love with someone else, he's obviously not going to be open to you, so the time is not right for you to be sharing your feelings. Wait until he's completely emotionally unattached to any other girls before you tell him how you feel so that you don't have any competition for his heart. You'll have a better chance of a positive reception that way.

Answer 3

No, because you're going to end up hurting yourself. Why should he reply with anything other than "Well I'm flattered, but I don't feel the same about you" because he loves someone else. I hope you can move on, but you should listen to your head instead of your heart on this one. Plus, if you tell him it will probably put a strain on your friendship that you don't want.

Answer 4

don't tell him. walk away. telling him you love him will only cause drama and pain. he will not leave the woman he loves to be with you, although he might cheat with you. in which case you will feel dirty, used and lonely when you know he's going home to her. and it could damage his relationship causing pain to the other woman... she didn't ask for any of this. if he's a really good man he will not get involved with you. and if he does get involved despite his relationship with someone else, beware... this may be a sign that he is a habitual cheater and he won't be faithful to you either.

Answer 5

Well I'm not a girl, so let's switch it to girl you love is in love with someone else. In most situations I've seen, when you have to tell someone you love them, you have to risk a really good friendship, or something else, so I say, unless you're willing to risk it, no.

Answer 6

I say tell him/her to avoid the "what if..." factor for the rest of your life. But, don't expect some dramatic scene like in the movies when he/she leaves the one they're with to be with you. But... you never know. So, tell them and see. Also, what ever is going to happen doesn't have to happen instantly. You might be planting a seed for a flower that won't bloom for some time...

Answer 7

Why? If he's supposed to be in love with someone else and he stops loving her because of what you tell him, what's that say about him?

Answer 8

Tell him and let him know. Even if you don't stand a chance now you will feel better just to be able to get it off of your chest and know that he knows how you feel. Wait and see what happens I guess. At least know that you got to say what you needed to say and that is what is important.

Answer 9

Thats is a good qustion. I really wouldn't know what i would do is probably just get over him because it is to many people out here to be worring about that one person.And i don't know if i would tell him.

Answer 10

Tell him anyways. Who knows? Maybe in the future you two will hook up if something doesn't work out between him and the other girl.