2006-07-28 06:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by tooshaggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like laying my clothes out for the next day??????
Is that bad?????????
2006-07-28 06:33:05 · update #1
Get her the book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura. She could learn a few things in there.
2006-07-28 06:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your wife to stop picking on you, that it bothers you. Don't be mean about it, just sit her down and explain that you find it annoying. Stop picking on her out of spite - this keeps the negative energy flowing and the situation will never change. You must balance the energies and keep it positive. If you treat her like you want to be treated, she should reciprocate. If she doesn't, then she is immature and needs to get straightened out. Remember - a marriage is about having fun and sharing your life with your best friend - the biggest part of that is having respect for your spouse. Good luck!
2006-07-28 06:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks she is just trying to correct your behavior, when what she is doing is being a bully. Unless of course you are a total slob and don't pick up behind youself. If that's the case the pick up. If it's not then write her a letter and tell her how you feel and leave it for her to read when you aren't going to be there. That way she will have time to think about it before she gets time to pick on you again or get angry.
2006-07-28 06:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out what's really bothering her. It's probably a deeper issue than leaving some clothes out. Maybe she's stressed or feeling bad. Just talk to her about it. Make her feel special.
2006-07-28 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
US WOMEN HAVE A TENDENCY TO CRITICIZE MEN BECAUSE THEY CAN BE VERY SLOPPY OR CARELESS. ONT HE OTHER HAND WHEN SOMEONE CRITICIZES US IT MAKES US FEEL BAD, LIKE WE MESSED UP BADLY. WOMEN ARE MORE SENSIBLE AND TEND TO DEAL BADLY WITH CRITICISM. JUST TAKE HER COMPLAINTS AND PICKING, BUT TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT MAYBE PICKING ON EVERYTHING SHE DOES IS NOT AS OKAY.
2006-07-28 06:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by norabb_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe women have some type of mothering concept and it just causes them to pick and they have to always be right so we can't pick back.
2006-07-28 06:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Antwain H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will find out that women do not like to have things pointed out to them, as for them pointing them out to us I let it go in one ear and out the other and continue to do the same thing
2006-07-28 06:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by sparks2228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a good ? try what i do maybe it will work for u, expect the best out of her, and she will give you her best.....
2006-07-28 06:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a woman for ya..wait i am a woman oh damn
2006-07-28 06:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad loser.
2006-07-28 06:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋