how do you girls become popular to boys????be nice or WHAT????!!!!
2006-07-28 06:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by pinky 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
"popular" isn't all it's cracked up to be...
Being "popular" with the boys might get them crawling all over you - but that doesn't lead to anything that's good for you. Maintain your integrity, and a boy who truely is interested in you because of who you ARE will eventually show up.
Set your sights further, girlfirend...School will fade into the distance before you know it. Become the woman you should be, and the boy-thing will take care of itself.
2006-07-28 06:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
first allow me to ask you, why do you want to be popular with the boys? What is being popular really about? Is that not being LIKED by everyone? And in your case being liked by all the boys?
And secondly let me ask you, do you truly feel the need to be the way every boy would like you to be just to be popular? Should it not be more important to be who you are and who YOU want to be and then be liked for that? Believe me, it will be worth a lot more if you do that. When people (boys) actually like you the way you are it means they've taken the time to get to know you and they like you just the way you are not because you're trying to be something you're not just to be liked by them. Do you know what I mean?
I mean hey, when I was a little younger I always wanted to be liked by everyone and I was this really shy person and was really afraid to let people get to know me because I was afraid they wouldn't like me. Then I tried to always be a thousand things to have people like me. And guess what eventually I did have people "like" me. But one day I woke up and saw that I'd forgotten where my real friends are. And now I'm a young woman that sticks to what she thinks and I speak my mind and I stick to what I feel is important to me and I don't care whether people like that about me or not. And I see a lot of people and also a lot of guys respecting that.
What I'm trying to say is that being who you are and having boys like you for it is waay more important than being popular with them. The truth is you only need a few very good friends around who will stick to you no matter what. The rest will come all by itself. Trust me. Good luck!
2006-07-28 06:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by M. Harker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but the only way there is is sleep arounde with all the boy then youll be real popular with all the boys
2006-07-28 06:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! If only it were like that...Its more like you have to have money, the clothes, the look, perfect hair, and cake on ur make-up....But thats if you want to be popular or have a popular guy...if your talkin about a normal guy then they would like you for who you are...but you can't be shy..You have got to talk to them and let them get to know you...
2006-07-28 06:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm..... depends what kinda attention you want from them, to tell you the truth, do you want to be know for being a skank, or for a good friend, or something in between. personallly i have guy friends, alot of them, and for example, girls who sleep around alot, are made fun of, the guys just laugh at them, but then they still be nice to them, so they can get a peice. Just be your self, is all i have to say.
2006-07-28 06:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. It's all about that. Smile, shine, and be bright. This can get you places outside of school too, you know!
2006-07-28 07:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by KLB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well basically you have to just know how to conduct yourself aroung the guys and you will see how they react.if they like you they will halla,if they dont they will give you the busy signal.aight yall.
2006-07-28 07:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by janekanembhard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not popular!At All boys hate me !!!!e-mail me if you wanna talk boys2work@yahoo.com
2006-07-28 06:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
still trying to figure that out.............sorry
2006-07-31 06:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by musicalblonde7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX APPEAL. , when u say no, we do it more
2006-07-28 06:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋