How to make a marriage work when you want out.?

Answer 1

u really have to work hard on a marriage no matter u want in or out of it,
firstly if u r married take the full reponsibiliy of that, don't break a marriage just for sake of it,
making a marriage work requires lot of paitence and inner strength,
i am making my marriage work so i think u can also do so
don't break up and have patence try to take out solution of ur problems

Answer 2

Try to remember the good times you've spent together and the hardships that you've been through. It's all about give and take. If your spouse really loves you or the other way around, there's always a solution to the problem.

I've been with my husband for four years and I've tried breaking up with him at least 20 times. Everytime we argue, it's about his family. Therefore, it has nothing to do with us. Things always work out when the feeling is still there. I'm currently 6 months pregnant and our last argument was about 2 months ago. It's about my mother-in-law who's trying to control me. I had enough and decided to give up on our marriage. At the end, we stayed together and now, I choose when I want to see my in-laws and when I don't want to. It'll be the same after my baby arrives.

Answer 3

First of all, how long have you been married? If it's only a little while, then you need to adjust to the marriage. If it's been awhile and the problems have been ongoing, talk to your spouse about it and try to be honest. Maybe the other person isn't all that happy, either.

If you aren't sure you still want to be married, go to a counselor with the situation. An impartial person can open your/your spouse's eyes and mind to things you may not have considered.

Marriage shouldn't be entered into lightly. And it shouldn't be given up on easily, either unless there's a history of abuse, drugs, infidelity.

Answer 4

You made a committment therefore put forth your best efforts to make it work. Go to counseling, read books, talk and spend time together. Just because you "want out" is not a good enough reason to end a marriage. Did the marriage ever mean anything to you?

Answer 5

Stop thinking about the OUT and start thinking to stop thinking the OUT but do things that will make every single thing work. Have you heard of the five love languages ? If you really want to make it work, you will search and find out what is so special about this five love language. You will put in every single effort and will see things through. You will not give up. You will continue trying. And trying, and trying. Because you know, its love who first bind you two together. Love your partner more than your own. Love your partner for everything, every time, every where.

Good luck :)

Answer 6

Look for the things that made you love them in the first place. Try new things together and communicate more. Most people stop being open with each other when their married. Some feel like they don't need to explain themselves because the other person should already know. Change is inevitable, but love can always endure anything. Get them to share so you can change and continue growing together.

Answer 7

If you want out, then you should leave. But if there's anything you can do to help the marriage - then you should do it. At least TRY. But it depends on the situation. We really need more info.

Answer 8

it take two people to make the marriage work. If one want out need to stop right now and end it. not to keep on stay married. It better if you want out now. tell now and before you guys make more harder on yourselfs.

Answer 9

Why fix something that will never work? THere's no need too, if there's any doubt at all, just get out as early. I have so much problem with my 11months husband and I just feel like it's only I whose doing most of the work (relationship wise) and seems like he doesn't...so I told myself.... other's will want this and rather have this than him...

Answer 10

Look at marriage advice websites. Counselors encourage lying and hiding the truth.