After being divorced twice, I am not willing to do it again.
2006-07-28 06:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Monkeylynn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Sometimes it is easier being single. I am in my second marriage now and I will never be married again! To much work. I married two different men with children from a previous marriage. NEVER AGAIN. To many problems with the step-children to make anything work. Not worth it!
2006-07-28 15:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that some people are just too selfish to be married. Being divorced, myself, I didn't like the idea of doing all the work around the house and then in the end, I would have to share credit with my hubby. I like doing things by myslelf sometimes, and he would sometimes want to come along. It's not a bad thing, either. I completely believe that some people just weren't made for marriage.
2006-07-28 13:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. There are lots of reasons for this. You may just be too trusting, and it makes it easy for other people to take advantage of you. Or, you could be totally self-centered and incapable of thinking of anyone else.
I have a cousin whom I love very dearly, and she has the WORST luck with men I've ever seen! She's been married four times--three times divorced, and once widowed. The only guy who was worthwhile developed a fatal illness within a week of their wedding day. Actually cut the honeymoon short because of symptoms of this rare illness. Her love life is like a soap opera.
She is a talented, attractive, and kind person--and I would hate to see her marry again. She's a magnet for losers. Don't know why, either. Her dad is a prince, and treated his wife wonderfully. He's a great father too. Maybe she just thinks all men are going to be like him, and isn't careful enough.
2006-07-28 13:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what my mom always says to me especially when i was getting divorced, "you either are the marriage type or you are the single type" and sometimes like with me i didnt realize that im not the type to be married untill after i was married now i know even if i find the most wonderful perfect man we will live apart and not get married, but some people love to have someone there all the time to talk to and be with
2006-07-28 13:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by pink f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I'm there too. I know how you feel. Im in a relationship now, love him dearly and want a child with him but I just don't know if I want another marriage after two failures. Marriage seems like such a piece of paper. Maybe I will get over that???
2006-07-28 13:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be doing what you don't want to do... But for the right reasons. Ask yourself if you'll be satisfied being single 20 years from now. If you think you would rather be with a partner than by yourself - it's worth to keep trying, IMO. But perhaps you will be truly fulfilled staying single. Just don't let your embitterment keep you from pursuing what you feel you want and deserve.
2006-07-28 13:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, me and my husband. We just can not make it work, we're divorcing and it's the best thing we ever did.
2006-07-28 13:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋