Hey guys, so I'm a 23 year old student. I'm used to having a crazy busy life. Last semester I was taking 11 units and working two jobs (1 FT, 1 PT) but now that it's summer I'm only working 40 hours a week & am beside myself with all this free time I have. I feel like I am being so unproductive with my free time. I have been able to see a lot of friends, like do dinner and stuff or a bar or club, spent more time with my sis & her kids, gone on dates with my man, but it never feels like it is enough. I feel like I always need to be on the go and not sitting at home watching TV. But I'm stuck as to what I should be doing all the time. I guess I feel like my life is unfulfilled. I don't feel happy. I miss my parents, who live out of state. I just had to find a new roommate to move in & regret that I missed the chance of maybe moving in with someone more fun. I dunno. I just feel unfulfilled & regret most decisions i make. Any insite or ideas would be great! Thanks guys.
2006-07-28 05:59:31 · 5 answers · asked by *apes* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a taboo suggestion, but why don't you try joining a gym or running during your free time?
Surely you know about the positive psychological effects of exercise on the mind. When you exert yourself physically, your brain releases chemicals called endorphins into your bloodstream. These do several things: relieve stress, enhance the immune system, postpone aging, and make you feel better in general ever day.
Also, you truly will be doing something productive with your time while you figure out where you're headed in life.
Check this site out if you dont believe me
http://www.beginnertriathlete.com/cms/article-detail.asp?articleid=734
Im not saying this is the universal solution to all your problems, but it will solve the unhappiness and perhaps the unfulfillment part. This might be just what you need though, because to the average outsider (me) your life sounds excellent otherwise.
2006-07-28 06:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mantra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax, your body will not like you in a few years if you dont relax and spend some"chill out" time! Your body is used to being on the go and so thats what it expects. You will mature and life will eventually slow to a pace thats good for you!
2006-07-28 06:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a business, you seem to have the energy to get alot done in a short period of time...might as well make them productive hours!
2006-07-28 06:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 23 DON'T SWEAT IT , HAVE FUN,YOUR ONLY YOUNG ONCE
2006-07-28 06:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gang bangs
2006-07-28 06:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by byteme 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋