Forget about him, raise your child to be the very best person she can be and deny him the pride of being a father when he wants to be involved in her life again.
Failing that-i think a cage strapped to his belly with a hole facing his belly with a rat in the cage. Then light a fire under the rat. Only one way to go-THROUGH his belly. Saw that somewhere-its pretty scary.
2006-07-28 08:56:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Child Support
2006-07-28 13:02:06
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answered by roonie 4
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Although it hurts like hell, try to ignore him and act like you've never been happier! That would probably get to him more than anything, because some guys want to see you hurting-- it's like a sick joke or something. People like him are not worth wasting your time and efforts on-- and you don't want to do something that will get yourself in trouble. You need to focus, instead, on taking care of your baby! And please don't ever use the baby as a pawn to get back at him. It will backfire on you in the long run. I have seen this happen too many times and it's always the child that ends up suffering. I do recommend that IF you let him be in contact with the baby, he should be paying child support. Go through the courts so you will get what you and the baby rightfully deserve.
2006-07-28 13:07:09
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answered by jobug 4
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You and the child make the BEST out of life without the dad . If he was that bad why did you sleep with him ? Take one day at a time and remember there will be bad days and even bad weeks ! But as long as you have that child you have a friend for life !!!!!!! Get down on your knees and ask the man upstairs (GOD) to help the two of you and you will be surprized. You must mean what you say to him. It just cannot be lip service..
2006-07-29 23:12:35
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answered by dan j 1
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The best way to get back at him is to live like you don't need him, just make him pay child support and be the best mom you can be. And go on with your life and find someone who truly cares for you and your child.
2006-07-28 13:16:08
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answered by isemellia 2
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Raise a wonderful child. Forget revenge, but get child support money so your child can more likely be successful.
2006-07-28 15:48:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Take him to the court..but this will give you money for the child support and no love..have it in your mind..you cant push anyone to love you or your child, he will pay for support and maybe some day he will understand what he is losing...and never....never talk bad to your kid about his father...you dont know about the future...and this could make your kid hating men or at least hating him.
2006-07-28 13:07:37
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answered by Marina F 2
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Don't waste your time trying to get back at your ex, spend your time making sure your child has a great life and doesn't turn out like your ex!!!!
2006-07-28 13:42:48
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answered by Cait 5
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Child support. It's legal and the right thing to do. Revenge sucks.
2006-07-28 16:25:57
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answered by Sir J 7
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You need a lawyer.
A mean, man-hating ***** of a lawyer. Do not settle for a nice guy.......search around until you find one that gets pissed off at this bastard. Then go after him with everything.
Document everything.....start a journal with dates, times and conversations, witnesses, etc.
Good luck and God Bless you and your baby!
2006-07-28 12:59:48
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answered by Anonymous
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