My boyfriend broke up with me yesturday..I thought i would be able to handle it when this day came, but i cant. I never cried soo much. He doesnt even want to talk to me. I feel as if i cant move on without getting closesure. Im not complete with out him..♥
2006-07-28 05:45:45 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My ex-boyfriend and i have been talking everyday since he broke up with me..he's admitted that he wants to get back together and that he still loves me. But for some reason he doesnt trust me..its not like i did anything for him to stop he just doesnt..♥
2006-07-31 08:00:38 · update #1
day by day and prayer bc u wont be alone 4 ever. Learn to be happy with urself bc u can never break up with u
2006-07-28 05:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about what you're going through. I think everyone has felt that at least once throughout their lives. Time heals all. I've broken up with girls thinking I would never find someone that would compare. But I've always seem to find someone better. This is the way it has always worked for me.... hurt for a while, take up a new hobby (keep busy to help and not think about the relationship), pretty soon you forget and one day your just over it. Then the ex will probably start calling again but by that time, it's too late and you have moved on. No worries there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-07-28 12:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best for both of you to take some time with no contact. It wouldn't help either of you to move on if you just talk to each other. The "just friends" thing doesn't work.
Just realize that there are plenty of other things for you to do besides think about him all day long. Get busy. Go for a bike ride. Start a new hobby. Get a lil make-over. (That helped me when my fiance and I broke up!)
You just need to get over it and be happy on your own before you try and "replace" him or you'll just end up getting hurt again, or worse, hurting someone else.
Also, try reading the book "It's Called a Break-up Cause it's Broken" by Greg Behrendt. Great points in it!
2006-07-28 12:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE complete without him. Never degrade yourself like that.
Write a letter of things you want to tell him and then tear it up into a million pieces. That will give you closure.
Move on....
there are too many fish in the sea to be sad about this!
Think of it as a great opportunity to meet a man that will treat you with respect and WANT to have you!
You deserve the best so go out there and get it, girl!
2006-07-28 12:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Nefertiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, you just realize that someone is important to you when he's already gone. But though there is much pain in breaking up, you must let it be, feel the pain, just let it pass and learn from it. What are the things that made it that way, why did he broke up. And after learning from it, move on, think positively. Endure and you will be find happiness in the end
2006-07-28 12:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the closure thing sucks. I've been there in the past and in some cases never got the closure I needed. I just resolved to the fact that things happen for a reason and perhaps I am better off now. Things do get better honey. Watch movies, listen to music, look to your friends & family right now for support. Keep yourself busy extremely busy doing something you enjoy to keep your mind off from him. Just don't indulge in bad stuff. Keep it clean or you will self destruct and believe me he's not worth it.
2006-07-28 12:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strong n positive attitude creates more miracles than any other thing coz life is 10% how u make it n 90% how u take it.
In life when you get troubles, don't get nervous... Just close ur eyes and follow ur heart coz heart may be in left but it is always right
2006-07-28 12:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your breakup, lil sister!
I know you can't see it now, but you will get past this and you'll find someone new.
Until then, go hang with your friends, go to the beach, have fun (even if you don't feel like it) watch some Dane Cook on the internet - you'll laugh like hell!
Just give it some time - things will change!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-28 12:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breakups are never easy, I went through a few in my younger years and they are always hard. But the good thing is you can still salvage a friendship if you both work at it. I am still friends with the women I dated way back in the day...so good luck and with your looks, you should be able to find a worthy man fairly soon!
2006-07-28 12:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there. its hard, uhm if I tell you to block it out and forget him, you won't believe me and you will feel like even crying probably more about it. but i was in your shoes, i cried for 3 yrs for my 1st love and it took me that long to get over him. but im here now and im fine, im actually getting married. i never thought there would be another guy to fulfil me, but i was wrong. i guess your just gonna have to learn the hard way if you dont want to just move on even if there is no closure.
2006-07-28 12:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Just go to God with this matter. Every day you'll be stronger. Who knows what the future holds. This can only make you stronger. Just keep praying and believing in God and he'll see you through all the things.
2006-07-28 12:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by Jonah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋