What reason(s) do people have to be unfaithful in their marriage and relationships?

Question

What are the main reasons? What are the sources of these reasons?

Answer 1

Response,any reasons they can give.From past excuses to totally being unfaithful in the relationship.I was married six years and totally faithfull the whole time but to him it was only a game he cheated from the first month til the last and left me for a women he didn't even know whom he meet on the internet.
It took me two years to date again and I was in a three year relationship with someone who I knew I loved.Until two weeks ago when his excuse was,he still had feelings from his past.He'd been divorced over a year from his ex.and that was his excuse.to go back to a woman he knew treated him like crap.If a person doesn't want the relationship anymore they can come up with any reason they want to remove themselves from it.It doesn't even have to be your fault.Just be careful who you give your heart to.Make sure they are real.Your feelings count to.Best wishes.

Answer 2

Very often it is insecurity or a mid-life crisis. Married and years later look back and realize that this is not what you wanted or dreamed of to be your perfect marriage and regret it. Sometimes something simple as in missing you on something you wish you had in your own marriage. More intimacy, security, more love or compassion you are missing out on and looking for with another partner. Sometimes it is just the person wants more sex but usually the reason is a lot deeper than that.

Answer 3

My hubby cheated because he said he was bored and jealous since I was paying so much attention to our son and was pregnant again etc....lame I know. Most things I read say the cheater usually feels huge amounts of stress over things such as money or work. Also say that the "adventue" and risk of getting caught is part of the lure. And they say unfulfilled in present relationship but that reason is actually very low on the list and most cheaters claim to really love the spouse.

Answer 4

in my opinion, we were never meant to marry under mans written laws of matrimony. we are animals by nature, just more intelligent animals. poltical figures set marital rules for several reasons, in the beginning, to make women more valuable in trade
for another, to stop guys from being dogs & sleeping around, although looking at eastern practices..i think man has been more closet gay since the beginning of time...

Answer 5

usually your spouse isnt what you thought they were. or acts differently, or doesnt do things you had hoped for.
or the cheater is just a sex hound and cant keep it in the pants.