I have never loved any woman in my life. When she came in to my life two years back, I dunno' what happened to me. I hadn't seen her nor met her, but had the feeling that I found my eternal love. She is happily married and has a son. Even after meeting her and her family, still I deeply love her. We are far away from each other. I have reached a situation that I cannot live without her. How can I express it to her and how can I make her beleive my love?
2006-07-28 05:27:13 · 14 answers · asked by vics4bids 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have told one side of the episode. My married life is not a happy one as everyone think. It is a marriage of two families rather than two hearts. As far as my Love is concerned, yup I truly love her and it's not lust. Even when we are together, I never desire her physically. Just wanna' be with her, that's all. Now about her, yup I know she too loves me. She had confessed to me that she is searching for true love. I not only love her but also respect and adore her. Ina sense, both us are sailing in the same ship. I tell her I love her. She says she really doesn't know whether she loves me or not. I have told her I will wait even for a century to get her love. I asked at least after 15 years and she said "YES". I am ready to wait coz' I love her and she is everything to me. Now tell me your opinions.
2006-07-28 05:53:28 · update #1
The word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-08-02 20:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she really is on love with someone else then no, neither of you will be happy after the wedding. she'll be wishing she was with this other guy, you'll never receive back all the love you put out and it will just end in divorce. I am a firm believer that there's someone for everyone. if you let her go and are open to meeting new people you will find the right girl. no one should get married just because a date had been set.
2016-03-27 03:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... for one thing you're married. You need to take the love you feel for her and turn it into something positive. It's a good thing that there is distance between you. It keeps your other feelings in check. If you are a spiritual perosn I would talk to a church counselor or pastor regarding the situation. If not... think long and hard about the repercussions of your actions. She is a happily married woman and if you truley love her, leave her be. You expressing your feelings will only bring pain to her and most likely both of your families. Probably not the answer you wanted but I have been in your situation and the object of my affection and myself suffered great loss. I wouldn't want that for anyone. Good Luck and God Bless you both.
2006-07-28 05:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thing # 1= if you have never loved a woman before, why are you married?
thing # 2= obviously this woman has a family. don't ruin that for her
thing # 3= if you feel you can't live without her, can you imagine her reaction if you told her and she didn't feel the same way.you could ruin a friendship
thing #4= if you said something to her about it, you could be potentially ruining her life, her husband's life and the lives of her children.
thing #5= what about your family? you would be hurting them severely and perhaps irreparably if you act on what may just be an infatuation
if you feel this strongly about her, don't ruin her life....you can get therapy to help you cope
2006-07-28 05:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's happily married then she found her love already. Why would you want to break it. She is the one for you but are you the one for her? When people are in love they think about all crazy things.."ooooh, she's my eternal love," "oooooh, I have never loved anyone the way I love her," "ooooh, shut up and face the reality...What about your family, what about her family. Don't you think they love her too. Geez...behave. I bet you said that before when you fell in love with your wife.
2006-07-28 05:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you HAVE TO LET HER GO! She has a family that she loves and that love her. Maybe you aren't inlove with her, maybe you just want to be loved by someone like her. This is not fair to her and her son. I think you are being kind of selfish. She is happy so just let her go. Good luck
2006-07-28 05:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're a man? This reads like it was written by a 15 year old school girl. First divorce your wife so that she can find a real man. Then pack up and move close to the woman. Hopefully her husband will find out you're after his wife and he'll gun your @$$ down so no one will have to listen to your whiny @$$ in the future.
2006-07-28 05:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rephrasing your question (truthfully) for you:
I am married man and fallen in LUST with a married woman. I can't live without her LUST.
What next?
Hell, if you don't repent of your wicked, sinful desires and receive a (spiritual) heart transplant from Dr. Jesus!
2006-07-28 05:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love...have you ask yourself, do you love your wife, is it fair to her? Its hard to describe love, a four letters words with thousands of meaning. When you fell in love, no one can stop you. Which means in your heart, the woman you love and married doesn't exist anymore. Is it passion or love? Very Sad, I pity your wife.
2006-07-28 05:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by keke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off leaving her completely alone or else you may find yourself running to the nearest store and buying a gun to protect yourself against her husband who has threatened to rip you apart piece by piece.
2006-07-28 05:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much leave her alone to get on with her life. You will only cause more broken hearts if you interfere.
2006-07-28 05:34:40 · answer #11 · answered by angelo26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋