My "friend" has been making me feel as if shes using me. Like, if we don't listen to something she doesn't want to listen to, or don't do something she wants to do, shes like, "I'm going home." And she always wants to do SOMETHING. Like, sing or play a board game. She doesn't understand that friendship is more than just doing stuff together. Its about talking to eachother and caring about the others feelings, right?
So, what do you guys think? Is she using me? How can I be sure she's really my friend? How can I get the point across that friendship is more than playing house?
Thanks to anybody that answers.
Paige <3
2006-07-28 05:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It does sound like she is using you. You can have a heart to heart with your "friend" and tell her how you feel. If she does care about this friendship with you, she will tell you how she feels.
2006-07-28 05:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah...it seems like she is using you. She likes control over people and you don't deserve that at all. You should avoid her from now on until she comes around and changes her ways. Friendships are based on trust and loyalty and honesty. Good luck with her.
2006-07-28 05:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she doesn't know what a friend is supposed to be. try showing that you trust her and love her she'll probably reciprocate- but if you don't love her and trust her, try finding someone else
2006-07-28 05:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by MiniEinstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so. i don't think she is not worth being her friend. if she doesn't want to talk and she olny wants to play, then stop being her friend and move on.
2006-07-28 06:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THEN PROBLY NOT
2006-07-28 05:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by wanda w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋