I see that many people appear that they respect all the Laws and they even appear coldly polite to others. But such people bear grudges toward others and such grudges often become part of their deepest minds and so one day after many years, it will burst in anger. What to do to throw away such seeds of hate in our minds? How to purify our deepest minds?
2006-07-28 05:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
People need to accept every part of who they are. We as humans possess every quality/trait of human beings, but when we deny ourselves any of those traits, and try to be less of who we are, we start to resent other people. If everyone could accept themselves for they are and love themselves, we would see a lot less anger and violence among citizens.
2006-07-28 05:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grudges are very tough to get rid of. Usually, the person needs to apologize to the person holding the grudge or so much time will have to pass that the circumstances no longer merit the relevancy of the grudge. Grudges will continue so long as the parties do not speak to each other and resolve it. The grudges I hold are against people who don't care whether I hold a grudge - which makes them very difficult to get rid of until a long period of time has passed and the grudge becomes irrelevant to your present circumstances.
2006-07-28 05:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by The Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Lord will forgive all and numerous as long as we are keen to forgive others. some situations we verify to forgive first with a view as an instance sincerity of our request. i ought to quote scripture in case you wanted yet then i ought to probable be categorised as a "decrease & paste" Christian. once you have ever wondered why a prayer hasn't been replied, possibly you choose to forgive someone both previous or modern that has indignant you with the very element you're soliciting for. social gathering: a chum owes you money and also you gained't enable it bypass after, say, 2 ot 3 years. yet you ask for a particular economic blessing from God for a clean vehicle or homestead. You get the conception. i'm keen to wager that in case you've been to forgive that individual their debt, you need to receive that that you've requested for. Jesus says we are to forgive someone seven situations seventy. that does no longer recommend merely 490 situations. It skill we ought to continually continually be keen to forgive one yet another. God does no longer carry a grudge. He needs to forgive us and bless us. yet when we carry on to grudges, He can't do what He needs. It does no longer remember when you're an atheist, Jew, Muslim, besides the reality that. He sends the rain on the merely besides because the unjust. In different words, he will forgive. era.
2016-11-26 20:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society and the human mind tells us to give people what they deserve. Bearing grudges comes a lack of forgiveness. And since no one deserves to be forgiven, then why shouldn't we bear grudges. It's a natural reaction, but you'll find more peace of mind if you learn to forgive.
2006-07-28 06:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by jackmacgregg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs a nemesis, Its a psycological fact, dont have a reference for you though I read it somewhere.
2006-07-28 05:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Octavius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to let things go. Try stress management lessons they work really good.
2006-07-28 06:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grudge is human behaviour,
2006-07-28 05:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by jamuna160180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes it easier to hate and do mean things
2006-07-28 07:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋