Has anyone actually gone up to a man and 'made the first move'?
What did he say?
Or do you flirt enough to get him to ask you?
Thanks!
2006-07-28 05:25:59 · 43 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have, some say yes, others are involved. Flirting can get you everywhere if you do it right!
2006-07-28 05:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by sara bellum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. If I see someone i fancy why not make the first move. Some guys are actually shy themselves and dont like making the first move and if you dont ask you dont get. Whenever I have asked a guy out, if he is single he has always said yes and I'm sure he will for you too.
Flirting is fun but can have a habit of backfiring if you flirt too much and end up giving out the wrong impression if you know what I mean.
2006-07-28 07:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have but it was yrs. ago. I did flirt kinda. I was driving and he was in a truck and he kept trying to follow me and my girl friend home from the beach. So I went to the mall and pulled over gave him my grand mas # and said if he wanted to meet for a coffee or drink give a call and guess what he did and 2 yrs later we got married and had 3 awesome children.lol Some memories are keepers.
2006-07-28 05:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well speaking as a male it has happened to me and was probably one of the best things in my life so far . My partner the lady concerned asked me out as we had said hello to each other a few times and out of the blue she asked me one night and we are still together nearly a year on. S o if you like the person go for it
2006-07-28 06:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by JOHNA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy i haven't lol but if u want some advice u need to get to know them so u so u both feel comfortable with each other then flirt compliment and so on
2006-07-28 05:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by james h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flirt a lot!But I've also asked guys put and I've gotten no's and yes' it's not hard to make the first move!
2006-07-28 05:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um try to flirt so he asks but not so good with the flirting.....
and then did ask one and he gave me the "think i need to stay single for bit longer" line, then few weeks later he tells me hes finally got a girlfriend after being tired of being single!! and to make matters worse he actually then asked if i wanted to see the underwear he was buying her for Valentines day!
MEN!!
so dont think i'll be doing that again!
2006-07-28 11:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens all the time girl. this is the 21st century.I like girls to make the first move.Although not all man like it. That takes some weight off your shoulders. That usually means women are independent and aren't afraid to take some chances.
2006-07-31 02:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i have to mae the first move, guys around here arent very forward most of the time, so almost everytime ive asked a guy out i made the first move
2006-07-28 05:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by takingoverme248 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him why the hell not .. I talked to my hubby first was in a pub knew a couple of his mates so probably made it easier .. he was quiet so i asked wot was wrong and it went from there and 24 yrs later we still together x
2006-07-29 07:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by lizzie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋