women too, of course... but maily guys opinion :)
Do you think it would be a big turn-off for my first guy..?
2006-07-28 04:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
why would you think that way?
you should do it w/ someone you care for and love.
2006-07-28 04:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by someone! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! believe it or not i asked myself the same question and i asked every guy i met about their opinion. im 37 and still a virgin till this morning. yes!!! only till this morning! i was intimate with this guy i really like last night and he wanted to go all the way but i had to tell him the most embarrassing (i think) thing about me...being a virgin and inexperienced. he said it was ok and no pressure. i finally agreed to go all the way this morning. why? its all about trust and being emotionally prepared. to be honest with you, most guys will get turned off, some guys wouldnt mind and make it no big deal and only few guys would think its special and a big turn on. so it all depends on what kind of guy you're with.
2006-07-28 04:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by allyson m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it would not be a big-turn of for you guy. becuase if he really does love you and you finally feel like you want to go all the way with him and you both care about each other a lot than he would actually feel pretty special becuase you kinda in a way saved your self for him. i say good for you! there arent that many people anymore that would actually wait that long anymore. (back then yes) nothing is wrong with you.
2006-07-28 05:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by la_gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It is not becau
se you are virgin that nobody loves you and can have a relationship with you. If you are a little bit shy you can try to make conversation in internet. You can ask the guys who reply you here if they will become your friend and maybe you find the wright one.
2006-07-28 05:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by POPEYE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 26. It's best to save your virginity for marriage, for someone you love.
2006-07-28 04:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rock L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about still being a virgin when u havent found ur soulmate yet?? i dont care if i get 2 be 35 (but im 13 now) and still a virgin cuz if i havent found a soulmate.
2006-07-28 04:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Holly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that you have a good deal of SELF CONTROl.
Good for you!
plus: to the guy, it means that youve saved yourself for him and its more special.
2006-07-28 07:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine9561 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will be nice for him. Dress up as a Cheerleader and im sure he will be well pleased.
2006-07-28 04:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Vas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wait til you get married.
2006-07-28 04:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by marym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋