This girl I know is pregnant. She has been in a long term relationship with her partner for 3 years (who is white). She has one daughter already from a previous relationship. At christmas she slept with another guy (an asian man) and a few weeks later she found out that she is pregnant. She only has a few weeks to go until she has her baby. She she come clean about her one night or pray that the baby is not the result of her one night stand.
2006-07-28 04:09:37 · 18 answers · asked by trollfido 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes.it could be a shock to her fella when baby is born
2006-07-31 11:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should have been honest a long time ago. Now it could be too far down the line as her partner will know that she is only saying something as she may get caught out anyway. She has lied so far so I would imagine that she will carry on lying until and if the evidence of her affair is born. I'm glad not to be a fly on the wall in that room.
2006-08-01 01:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if the truth hurt she needs to come clean with her partner he will be hurt but at the same time hes gonna come to terms with it at least he will know what is going on then him finding out at the end it will make him look stupid and i dont think he can forgive her so she better tell him before someone else does.
good luck to ur friend
2006-07-28 04:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by joann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be happier coming clean (as you put it) if she has any hope of preserving her primary relationship. Think about it: Pretty soon the baby will arrive and this will all be a moot point; her best possible position would be one of full disclosure now...there's no explaining it later.
2006-07-28 04:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she should come clean. It might cause her partner to walk a way but she should. But, if her partner truly love her he'll be there when she goes in labor. He'll just should ask for a blood test. Once, he find out the truth they should go from there.
2006-07-28 04:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should have told him from the start. but now that the baby is due soon.. i would leave it until after the baby is born. there is no point the mother putting her unborn baby through the stress. if she's lucky, the baby is wont be the result of the one night stand but of the boyfriend.
2006-08-02 08:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by cazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not tell her partner he will find out if the baby belongs to the one night stand.Its a really tricky situation she can tell him
& face losing him or wait untill she has the baby,i wish her the best.
2006-08-04 22:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't bother telling him let him find out at the birth, but remember to take a camera to record the look on his face when she gives birth. Now that's a way to humiliate a man
2006-08-03 19:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by # Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be horribly evil to let a man raise a child under the false belief that it's his. Even worse to let him continue in a relationship with someone he believes has been faithful to him (without making his own decision).
2006-07-28 04:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rumplestilskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she should b honest what she gonna do if its a result of a one nite stand lie and hope 4 the best i dont think so
2006-07-30 07:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she only has a few weeks to go she should concentrate on keeping well and relaxed
to cause unnessary distress on herself at this late stage would be silly wait and see what happens then tell later
2006-07-28 04:24:51 · answer #11 · answered by elaine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋