I want to know how a guy can cheat on his wife, when she is beautiful and pleasures him in everyway?

Question

What is it that you guys really want out of a good wife?

Answer 1

I read through some of these answers, hum?


Your Husband cheats because he thinks he is secure in your marriage. Is he? Is he right in thinking that you are there and not going anywhere, regardless of what he does? Are you OK with his cheating? Have you confronted him about this adultery? Because that's what it is! do not believe that all men do this ... some Men do this because socially it is acceptable. Just an excuse!
It is 'really' all about what YOU want, don't try to please him anymore! he obviously doesn't care. Do you want him to care? If so then get the ball rolling, sit down and think seriously about what you want and what you need and let him know it, do not succum to his complaints tell him that he needs to come up with ways to please you, but say it in nutural tones-- not loud but yet not a whisper It makes men really focus on what you are saying because the tone is different. ( not what they expect)
They are pre-programmed to filter out what women say when a certain tone is used, some may laugh but its true, oh yes they can repeat back every word that is said,... Like a parrot! So use different tones in your voice when you want him to really remember and to think about what you are saying he may not admit it but it will be in his mind and in his toughts until he can come up with a solution to solve it. that is man's greatest weakness. he hates to fail, and will do what ever it takes to solve it.
All you have to do is decide what you want!

Answer 2

Well, hmmmmm, I can't see why I would/could.....if this wife is you, then I would ahve to ask you if you were indeed these things, and if, unfortuantely, the attitude was as good. In otherwords, yu can give a man everything he wants, and be quite beautiful, but if you nag and b*itch all the time, even while pleasing him...he can be looking for that one quality you were lacking. Assuming you are not this way....then he is one of those that think there is always someone/something better out there....he should be happy with what he has....and fear more about losing the best there is, than fearing there may be something better he does not know about

Answer 3

Personally I think the guys who respond to this that men are dogs.... are looking to score points... and the women who say the same are deluding themselves that they themselves don't cheat just like men supossedly do... Am I a cheater for saying that? No I'm not... I'm just a guy who has really observed this and have come to the conclusion that both men and women cheat with equal measure for a variety of reasons....

One could ask the question why do women who have a good man, who comes home every night and provide for the family... go and find a guy and cheat.... thing is... women will come up with whole lot of answer as to why it was rational for the woman to cheat... as you often do... Men will cuss the guy for not handling his business... Why is that....

Your question starts with the premise that all men want is a gorgeous woman to give him freaky sex and he is happy.... and in many cases that is far from the truth... Men want the same thing women want... stability, conversation (about the right stuff) and the freaky sex through in..... Bottom line is though is that men and women are different.... so rather than saying men are dogs take time to understand you man.... Doggy style ain't all he wants.

Answer 4

It is in their nature. It is a different story if it were a one nite stand - to taste sth different - or repeated continuously and turned out to be a longstanding relationship. I dont mean to say it is acceptable but sometimes they cannot resist the connection between their brains and down below. Being cheated is very painful but at the end and just for once one can decide listening to theirr heart, if it happens again let him hv a nice day somewhere else. Also sometimes women are so good, beautiful and perfect that men dont know what to do, then it becomes too heavy a load to carry and they cheat.

Answer 5

I have noticed that most men are greedy and childish when it comes to cheating. They do it to brag to their friends or just because. It does not matter that the woman that he is cheating with can spit phlegm into a tin can from across the room and he has a woman at home that knows how to use tissue. Just the fact that he feels like he is getting over is enough. But they are the same ones that come on Maury crying that he messed up again and that he can't live with out his wife,

Answer 6

You are asking the wrong question. It is not any shortcoming of the woman, but the man's inability to be faithful, which is the problem.

Many men are just childish jerks.

Maybe it's something in the genes that makes a man want to "mate" with as many women as possible.

But we are not animals in the jungle. We are civilized and should not act on every primitive impulse.

Women deserve better.

Then again, sometimes women do it to men too.

PS I hope that you are not facing this personally, but it sounds as though you are. All I can say is stay strong and good luck.

Answer 7

Most of the men would be like that only.they always want to get new things and glitters which they feel it is good but never cares at their wives who love them truely and care for them always till the end of the life.but a woman always wants and expects true and honest love from a man which is always impossible for a man to keep their honesty and true love.thats why woman gets into the soup(marriage to a man)very easily she couldnot realize the fact until she loss everything in her life due to that man.I highly believe 99% women in all over the world love their BF or Husband truely their love shall be always true and real and honest. But we cant say all men will be bad or all good.i would say 40% of men all over the world would be true lovers. thats all.every man utilizes his wifes goodness and based on that he can easily cheat her or lie her or blackmail her.this is the present condition of women in the world today.though his wife is so beautiful and gives pleasure to him everyway guy usually is a wanting animal(sorry to say this fact) for new things. he never satisfies with a single wife though she is so beautiful.

Answer 8

well girl all i can tell you some men are not happy less the have there cake and eat it too.
but i wouldn't put up with it cause u have so many STD'S out there in this world today. and all it take is him sleep with and girl come home to his wife sleeping with her and then u find out Ur dieing. i would go have and STD check right away. and prove he was sleeping around on me and hang his up side down by his balls in and court room take ever thing he has and some. but i am evil like that but i would put up with it. if the wife has her looks and her kind heart then she can find someone way better than that *** . to take care of her and her kids if they have kids. and kids can tell ween something going on with mom and dad. kids read between the lines more than u think. i am married now and i well say I'll never do it again long as i live if i ever get out this one and men are trifling.

Answer 9

Monogamy (when people are in a relationship and only have sex with each other) is something that should be agreed between 2 partners. A lot of men (and a lot of women, too) are not monogamous and won't become monogamous because of marriage. That's a mistake a lot of women make, they won't cheat on you because you are ugly or bad in bed....
If a guy (or a woman) feels like he/she can not devote himself (at least sexually) to only one woman, he should probably be honest about it and tell his/her future spouse.
A lot of people feel sexuality and love are 2 different things and are OK with their partners having affairs as long as it does not disrupt their commitment to their marriage.
Some people feel perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship and they believe sex is an expression of love and commitment.
I believe the only way to not be hurt or hurt a partner is to be completely honest and respect each others' expectations.

Answer 10

Ok hunny, listen up. This man is a pig and nothing you do is oing to change him. Take my advice, and get out now before you catch something 409 cant wash off from this idiot's skanky lover(s). Adultry is illeagal. File for divorce on grounds of adultry, take everything he has, and move on with your life. It's going to be a long and hard road to get through this, but that is why God gives us friends and family. And by the way, if you have kids, his cheating will hurt them badly and you need to think of them and not just trying to fix your marriage. They need to be left with as few scars as possible.