Its a tough one but I lost a close freind last year he was a nurse who killed himself and then I went to a CREMATION I felt ill still do sorry for being serious howabooka!!!!!!!! ps he was called Frank Richardson and was also the lead singer in a band called no tomatoes.
2006-07-28 11:01:06
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answered by maddogs 2
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That would be nice. Too bad it's physically impossible, though.
Are we discussing love here specifically or problematic situations of any kind? Life kicks a lot of sand in everybody's face -- in some cases, too much -- and even that happens for a reason, even when it seems that everything is going right and there are no problems at all in the world. Love is not the only source of problems.
Life is a test. A constant test of our capabilities and character. Bad things happen so that we can become stronger and wiser and learn to appreciate the good things; it's as simple as that. People who love each other get angry PRECISELY BECAUSE they love each other; that is, if they didn't love each other, they wouldn't get angry about anything -- because they simply wouldn't care.
People who love each other just need to learn to let their true feelings show, so they don't have to get angry.
Even a man who's been filthy rich since the moment he was born can feel frustrated about his life if he fails to realize just how lucky he is, compared to the millions and millions of people starving and dying throughout the world. Why? Because he has no knowledge of their problems and no grounds of comparison, from his own personal experience, by which he can truly appreciate his state-of-the-art cars, his private jet, his endless parties, his hot meals, his warm clothes, his huge manor, his little holiday house, and all the rest he's missing out on. Talk about a wasted life!
I think one has to be pretty naïve to believe that it is possible to live happily ever after, as if the world could stop having problems at the snap of one's fingers. That's not possible. And I say even more: it would be unhealthy.
I wouldn't want to live happily ever after, even if it were possible.
That would be a sign that I'd have become blind to the world's problems. That I'd grown selfish and stopped learning from life. There is ALWAYS something to learn. Something to improve about ourselves if we keep an open mind and face up to our problems. And that can turn a person into a source of positive energy which other people can be inspired on, which in turn can indeed help them solve their problems and feel better, and ultimately improve the world.
So BE that person.
Face up to your problems and never let them stop you. Always respect other people, but never lose your ambition or your dreams. Always think big, without fear of thinking too big. Never let any kind of hardship stop you. Make ALL of your dreams come true.
And tell me whether you're happy then. ;)
2006-07-28 11:31:27
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answered by LJ 2
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People are as happy as they make their minds up to be. No-one has a perfect life. I can say from personal experience that you really find peace and happiness when you learn to embrace the difficult times and struggles. Everything starts with a thought and an attitude.
In ever life some rain must fall. Look at the rain in your life and see it as a time to wash away the imperfections. It is all about character building.
Just because we stop growing physically, we continue to grow emotionally, mentally and spiritually. We all have growing pains, but it will make us stronger & better. I believe that life with Christ is spectacular! He will give you inner peace even when the whole world is in the midst of storms!
2006-07-28 10:42:48
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answered by Shayna 6
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Depends on what your definition of 'happily ever after' is. I think in order for two people to actually be happy together, they need to find their comfort zone with each other wherein they both understand each other and are comfortable with the relationship on the whole and working things out. Its knowing that you want to spend your life with this person and being able to stop looking around you and out the door hoping someone better will come along. Its being happy with what you've got and sticking with it.
2006-07-28 10:41:50
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answered by dsd 5
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I know a few. Like my great grandparents, for example. They lived long happy lives together until they died. They were married for 56 long years and loved eachother for every last second.
2006-07-28 10:42:08
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answered by Kayari of Midnight 2
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I have a good start on forever after. Been married to my love for 35 years and love him more ever day...
2006-07-28 10:41:38
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answered by kitkat 7
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I would imagine so, yes...both people alone and those with a partner...our lives are as happy as we make them...
2006-07-28 10:51:10
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answered by . 7
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yea but it didnt last long before reality kicked back in
2006-07-28 10:44:14
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answered by MikesLilMama 3
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My parents. They have the best marriage!
2006-07-28 10:39:45
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answered by mmw108 3
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yes
2006-07-28 10:39:43
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answered by anitababy.brainwash 6
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