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I love a sir/teacher of our school, I love him very much ,many of them thinks it is an attraction but i know it is a true love,I may be leaving my school this year.My sir comes to my house,he is unmarried,and 13-14 years older than me,we are also good friend .he don't know my feelings,I can't forget him.It is just impossible to forget him .....What will i do? WillI propose him?" plz help i am very much confused!

2006-07-28 03:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

11 answers

If you don't want to ruin his teaching career then stay away. Its ok too have a crush but almost all school have regulations from student and teacher relationships....it doesn't matter even if you both were consenting adults.

2006-07-28 03:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I strongly urge you to do whatever is within your power to avoid this situation, and if you find yourself unable to, solicit the help of other trusted adults to assist you. This could be a very damaging situation to both of you if allowed to run unchecked, and that's generally true of any "relationship" where power and /or authority is unequally distributed regardless of the ages of the people in question. I'm sorry I could not offer you a more positive response, but I don't think this situation is in your best interest.

2006-07-28 10:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0 0

It is normal to become infatuated with someone who is in a position of leadership or authority. You should not act on it because it is ONLY infatuation and you are a teenager. He should not act on it because he is an adult and knows better.If he does act on it, he is violating an often forgotten ethical code that we must adhere to as educators. Perhaps he is genuinely interested in you as a student only and you are misinterpreting his actions. For sure, he should not be coming to your house. Regardless of how you think you feel, if he takes advantage of you, he is a scummy sleazy man and not worthy of your love anyhow. Save your love for someone your own age who is a good person, but only when you are mature enough to handle it.

2006-07-28 10:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by English101 2 · 0 0

If you wanted the moon I would try to make a start,but I would rather you let me give my heart, to Sir , with love.
To Sir, with Love available on video starring Sidmey Poiter. Great movie

2006-07-28 10:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0 0

you might be good riends but he has a educatioon, to protect and being in the teaching profession these days for what we pay in college and getting the job and respect, i wouldent touch you, jobs are too hasrd to come bye for, us too be siiting in the slammerr over you, find somebody your own age and grow up, fast thi isent for you, you arent old enough too, be in this thing really, you could ruin his life if caught do you even care?? what if he decides too dump your *** and move too another school, the risks are just too high here use your head here, get out now before you ruin his life anmd yours for life, scars run very deep, many lives here, are at stake and if the school board finds out the teacher may never find another job agaiin think about it hard fast baill out now, before its too late

2006-07-28 10:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wait till you're 18 if you feel it is true love. As I always say if it is true love than you can wait.

2006-07-28 10:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by The One Truth 4 · 0 0

if the feelings are still there AFTER you graduate in he is no longer in the role of your instructor and you his student, then go from there. until then, back off. if you really care for him, you don't want to ruin his life or yours.

2006-07-28 11:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by shiningstar 1 · 0 0

Go for it baby. Propose to him. Make him yearn for you. Dont delay and hurry up !

2006-07-28 10:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by spj 2 · 0 0

you are to young to be involved with your sir/teacher. it could ruin his life or career if you have an affair with him.

2006-07-28 10:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by crackalac 4 · 0 0

You're going to ruin both of your lives.Find someone your age

2006-07-28 10:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0 0

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