My guy can't come!!?

Question

Girl asking for her guy, my guy is incredibly turned on, so no problem there, but we can go on for 2 hours or more and he just can't come. He says he is very unsensitive...any ideas!! I don't mind the duration of the sessions but obviously the ultimate goal is to reach a peak at the same time!
By the way I know the spelling is wrong but they starred the correct spelling out!!!

Thanks for a lot of fab answers, for the guy who answered I should put a pillow over my head, I am a ballet dancer, so we are a pretty good looking group of girls, plus I probably have the strongest pelvic floor muscles there are, so that doesn't help, but some good suggestions...thanks

Answer 1

ok, firstly - IM JEALOUS! 2 hours! you lucky moo!

maybe lots of mutual foreplay - get him all worked up before he penetrates you, maybe porn would help, it certainly makes my man come quick!

oh you lucky lucky lucky thing.........

Answer 2

Maybe he's trying too hard to climax, he's putting too much pressure on himself & now it has become an issue.

He needs to relax, loads and loads of really randy foreplay might help, tease him with oral sex (if you want to that is).

Try not to let him think that it's an issue.

There are some really good durex lubricants you can get that make you more sensitive.
Or take a trip to Ann summers loads of lubes and creams!

Answer 3

If he cant come while wanking then it's medical and he should see a doc. Other than that, try some pelvic floor exercises for a month, do them constantly, then when you are having sex, put the squeeze on him

Answer 4

Gavin! You posted this for me? Oh! You shouldn't have! Of course I'm coming! I'm the one marrying you! *Jumps in your arms and kisses your cheek*

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Answer 5

Want to know a secret......sound's like you guy is on Viagra! SSShhhhhhhh!

Answer 6

get him to a docter, or try sme sensitising gel from ann summer, does he come when he mastebates???

Oh and i dont think much of the pillow face and your not doing itright comments, i wouldn't listen to them (prob vi-rgins) it may be medical. Or u guys ever think He is wrong

Answer 7

I would ask him how he jerks off, he might be desensitizing his penis that way. If that is the case, have him stop for 4 days and if he wears boxers tell him to wear briefs. By the second day he should be developing blue balls, and by the fourth day he should have sex with you.
If he goes to a urologist, he will tell him not to do it that way anymore. If that isnt it...He has nerve damage and should see a urologist.

Answer 8

I suggest he see a urologist or just his family doctor. But if he is a young guy and having problems he really should be checked out. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Sometimes, penetrative sex can get a little numbing for a guy, particularly if using a condom. Take the pressure off reaching a peak at the same time! Just finish him off with your mouth...

Answer 10

maybe you guys need to speak to a sexual health expert.

there are loads of men and women out there who have trouble reaching climax.

sometimes its something that can be worked on through talking therapies or discussing openly your sexual practises with a professional outsider that can offer practical advice....... basically how to make it work for both of you.

best of luck.

Answer 11

Send him to the gym so he can get some regular exercise, he should get a check up with the doc and have his prostate checked. Does he smoke? That can affect him. Show him you love him. Tell him.