my bf gets angry easily but he claim he loves me, he sometimes refufe to talk ot me and later talk to me?

Question

he get angry sometimes with no reason, he talks too loudly when there is no need to shout. I feel that he sometimes doesn't want to talk of see me sometimes PLEASE HELP ME

Answer 1

Your so-called boyfriend is demonstrating signs of an unhealthy relationship. I'm assuming you are very young. It's best to get out of this relationship before you set a cycle for yourself, dating abusive guys.

Besides, you are probably too young to have a boyfriend to begin with.

Answer 2

you need to talk to him, sounds like hes got problems that he needs to discuss but if you really believe this can work dont give up just yet.When we first met my bf used to get very angry and though was never physical did get a bit scary sometimes-punching walls etc.But i talked things through with him and made him see the error of his ways(he realised it was down to his dad treating him badly and always making him to blame in the eyes of his mother during arguments etc) and four years on we've got a wonderful life together with a great baby-so sometimes it really is worth the fight!!!good luck and dont despair

Answer 3

Your boyfriend has anger problems. You need to work on your education and leave him to work out his problems before you get serious with him. Do not let anyone disrespect you verbally as this will become a physical disrespect. He does not love you in the true sense of the word or he would not be mistreating you by not speaking or raising his voice to you. Love is gentle and quiet. Love is when he puts you first. When you find a man that puts you first before himself then you will know he loves you.

Answer 4

Pull him on the threshold of you and carry him tight, if he permits you to. Reassure him that it receives better. He appears like he blows up over issues he has no administration over. Take a demanding look at what triggers him the most. enable him vent, do not reply. at the same time as he's done, tell him that you get disillusioned at the same time as he's disillusioned and it needs to renounce. enable him arise with equipment to assist himself. Now if he develop right into a spoiled brat as a baby, there is your answer.

Answer 5

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel if you leave it and carry on like this you will be having a relationship in 5 years time like this. He needs to realise he isn't a baby. And you need to talk about things like adults. Maybe you need to think about your future with this man. Does he really love you if he can treat you like this! If you don't sort this out now you will regret it later as he will get worse and he will think he can walk all over you, believe me it happened to me. I spent 12 years with someone who talked to me like ****, always wanted his own way, not prepared to talk about things. It took me that long to get the courage to tell him to clear off. Good luck it isn't easy don't just listen to your heart I did that and reverted it, listen to your head as well. Best of luck.

Answer 6

Find someone who will treat you with respect and love all the time, even when you are in a argument.
If you are asking that means it is bothering you.
You deserve the best. Dont settle for just anyone.
Good luck.
P.S. There are guys who will treat you good all the time.

Answer 7

sounds like he has a compulsive behaviour problem. if he won't get help for it you will have to leave him. making you feel afraid is mentally abusive and very controlling. you can't help him or change him but decide if you want to spend anymore of your life like that. he may be loving and wonderful the rest of the time but staying with him will encourage him to get worse as he gets older.

Answer 8

if you really love him firstly you have to talk to him wts the reason that he become angry from you n you to not to talk with him when he would be upset may he had some problem but the reality is that he really love him thats y he feel soory n talk to u

Answer 9

ITS THE POWER OUR THE MACHO SIDE OF MENN THAT DOES THIS I KNOW IAM A DUDE AND WE LIKE TOO TURN YOU ON THIS WAY BYE SHOUTING AT YOU OR GETTING ANGRY OR PISSED OFF AT YOU WE LIKE TOO BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR INNNER EMOTIONS, IN MOST CASES, IF WE SEE YOU LOOKING AT ANOTHER DUDE, ITS GET THE BLOOD GOING IN US, ITS JUST THE CASE OF THE MALE PART OF ANY RELATIONSHIP, OF BEING M,R MACHO, OR BIG HERO OVER OUR MATES NO MATERR WHO IT IS, YOU MUST STAND YOUR GROUND AND SHOW YOUR MACHO SIDE AND GIVE HIM THE SAME DOSE OF MEDICINE HONS, US MENN EVEN AT A YOUNGER AGE DONT KNOW HOW TOO CHIL, OKAY OR THE ANIMAL INSTINCT IN US, ETC. MEN WE BE MEN BOYS WIL BE BOYZ ETC/

Answer 10

let him know how u feel too, and he doesnt need to yell and argue if he doesnt respect what u say and try to change u deserve better