A lot of us guys are only after getting themselves off, and that's it. A rare few of us actually care about making sure that their partner is having fun too. This IS a shame, as sex IS supposed to be a sharing experience, but most guys are no mature enough to really prolong the experience. I do know that phyisically, it doesn't take much fo a guy to get off - it's the mental and emotional desire to make the experience last longer that is lacking. This is also a shame, because most guys don't realize that prolonging the experience makes it all that much more better - MORE IS BETTER! ;)
2006-07-28 02:21:41
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answered by AshamedHusband 1
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this varries depending on the woman and, on how long it has been for the man. i gather this is a new relationship and very exciting to the man? if no, then you are one hot lady to make you man "get off" so quick. i would suggest you have him slow down, change possitions, or you take top then you have controll. if you feel he is getting too excited then change it up a lil bit. also another thing to try is doubble the condom it will dull the sensation for him. although it might be only 5 min instead of a minute. involve more foreplay before you actually do allow him to do the deed this might help you acchieve orgasm faster too! to actually answer your question from personal expierence, i usually go anywhere form 10 min to an hour depends on the circumstances. also had the same mate for 7 years. still going strong at least once a day!!:)
2006-07-28 09:16:40
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answered by welder0964 2
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We in my relationship, my husband seems to be able to hold it pretty well....Its not uncommon to get constant screwing for 45 minutes or more, but I think the reason it lasts so long is we've been at this for 13 years now so we know each others bodies pretty well, so he knows when to slow down and switch things up if he's getting to close or I am and he's not ready for me to be coming just yet...so anyway I would say an average complete love making sesh takes around 1.5-2 hours complete with all the foreplay and oral, start to finish. I've always thought that was normal?
2006-07-28 13:02:12
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answered by Sharlala 5
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It depends on the moment. If she is willing but not into it, I don't last long. But if she is really into it and basically ripping my clothes off, I can last a pretty good while. I guess there is less stress involved when she comes and gets it from me. I've only turned her down once in 8 years so she really has no reason not to come and get it. And when she does come and get it, it is better for her.
2006-07-28 09:20:11
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answered by waterfowlwidowmaker 2
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My guy has never been a minute guy. He makes sure I have atleast two orgasms before coming. The longest he has lasted is 4 hours and I was so sore. The average is about 30 minutes of pounding.
2006-07-28 09:18:45
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answered by Anonymous
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IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON MALE/FEMALE.ME I AM AN AVERAGE MALE OF 57 YEARS.FOR THE MOST PART SINCE MY EARLY 30s SEX(NO) MAKING LOVE!FIRST MY THOUGHT IS TO GIVE MY PARTNER HER ORGASM ,THAN WE.I KNOW FEMALES CAN DO MULTIPALS.BUT FOR THE MOST PART 20 MINs.YOU *** FIRST BY ORAL.ME GIVING YOU.NOT 69.THAN YOU MAY GO AGAIN IF YOU WANT,AND MOST OF THE TIME YOU WILL.95%.DEPENDS ON HOW YOUR DAY WENT.RELAXATION IS THE KEY.AND THE WANT TO BE WITH YOUR PARTNER.I HAVE LIVED LONG ENOUGH TO KNOW YOUR NEEDS,AND TO BE ABLE TO READ YOUR BODY.YOUR BREATHING,YOUR MOVEMENTS,YOUR ACTIONS.TO KNOW WHERE YOUR AT.BUT YES(AVEG:20/30 MIN IF STIMULATION IS STUDIED AND YOU CAN LEARN TO HOLD BACK.ITS EASY.ITS IS AT ITS BEST WHEN WE CAN HAVE AN ORGASM TOGETHER.TAKES PRACTICE AND BEING IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER.HOPE I MAY HAVE ANSWERED A LITTLE FOR YOU.(A FRIEND)
2006-07-28 13:24:29
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answered by lickit4u 5
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Why even ask this question. No man is going to admit to being a minute man. Most are believe it or not. This is not at all uncommon. As far as the last mans remark about "wow you must be hot to get him off so quick" ....I personally dont take it as a compliment. It aggrivates me when my lover cums too quickly.
2006-07-28 09:19:28
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answered by Anonymous
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I've gone 15 hours once stopping only to get something to drink and go to the bathroom. It was an incredible day!
2006-07-28 09:24:26
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answered by ray4u 2
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No, you'll find that older guys can last a long long time and make every hour count.
2006-07-28 09:28:37
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answered by bad_bob_69 7
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I can last as long as you want , I will use toys And all the parts of the body
2006-07-28 09:12:23
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answered by polockpete40 3
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