they've divorced for 3 years. but i still feel bad about that. i personally doesn't want to tell others, but i was so sad when i heard the truth from my mom, i still 'internally' want to keep my family together.what should i do????
2006-07-28 02:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by ☆LiAn☆ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm 16 right now
i knew the divorce when i was 14 but they've divorced for 3 years
2006-07-28 02:20:04 · update #1
My father died from a bad car accident, while I was still in my moms belly and then when I was in the Navy my mother died from a fatal head shot wound from a gun. So just love the both of your parent and think of how blessed you are. If they weren't happy with each other, I'm sure the house hold wasn't truely happy either. Feel lucky you still have the both of them, and hope when you are ready for marriage you can look back and decided if it is really love . So hope something good comes from this and just remember they both love you for ever.
2006-07-28 02:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
A family breakup can be a traumatic thing for a child, but there are times a divorce is better than two people who are unhappy together continuing. You do not give your age, but it sounds as though you are grown and no longer live at home. Just see both your parents separately and get over your feelings.
2006-07-28 09:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel that way. There's not much you can do...I'm sure that the reasons they divorced aren't for your worries... But I would definitely tell them how you feel. It's your right to make your feelings heard. Holding them in will only make you feel worse. My thoughts are with you. :: hugs ::
2006-07-28 09:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl do continue progressing in your studies , become strong with good qualification , earn good , be mature and then take appropriate decision , right now flow with the time , I do pray for your bright future , May Almighty blessed you with lots of strength .
2006-07-28 09:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People divorce everyday and it is because they are happier without the other person ... why try and get you family back together when your parents arnt happy with eachother?
2006-07-28 09:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First HOW OLD are you...?
That makes a difference...
however... 3 years? It's time.
That's long enough for you to know that HUMPTY DUMPTY isn't going to be put back together again.
Good advice... preceeds me.
Love them both... accept their right to live their life as they see fit.
2006-07-28 09:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents have been divorced all my life be happy they were together for a while
just talk to your mom or dad whoever you stay with and let them worry not you
2006-07-28 09:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone that you can trust to talk to. Tell them everything. Let things out, then see how you feel.
2006-07-28 09:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can still be with both your parent. And you can try to make them friends again.
2006-07-28 09:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there s much u can do..but its not ur fault that ur family isnt still together. You can still b happy though. tc
2006-07-28 09:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by scartissue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋