2006-07-28 02:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by ultimo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because people get lazy in relationships as the comfort level increases. It doesn't have to be this way, but both partners have to be open to keeping the passion alive or it will just eat away at the one doing all the trying.
2006-07-28 02:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by waterfowlwidowmaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion in an affair always fades....its when the passion changes to love that you realize that you have more than an affair...you have a real relationship. Affairs hardly ever work...When you have all that 'passion' in the beginning it has no where to go! You have to experience 'real' life with the person...and in an affair you don't experience that. And eventually, it fades.
2006-07-28 09:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have a fantastic talent for ignoring our own responsibility for our troubles. The same holds true for our relationships, if either partner is perfectly happy with what they are contributing to an already sour relationship, then that what can we say.
Love is one of the most misunderstood facts of life. Just because those three little words " I love you" are said, and said " often ", it doesn't necessarily mean that we automatically know " how to love". What is this " love?" In order to keep the " fire burning ", I would say, a couple would, most importantly, have a genuine respect for each other. And by this, I mean that they seek each other for advice, protect each other from criticism and misunderstandings, and fulfill each other's unspoken desires. Combine all of the above and you are showing your partner that you really love them. And along with this, you should show your partner physical love. A little peck, a little pat, a squeeze , hug, kiss, you know the whole gambit of physical affection. Love once spoken and demonstrated as such reveals itself, it becomes visible to each partner, it's not hidden.
One of the biggest problem in most relationships is the " fairy-tale romance " idea. Don't get me wrong- romance is great, it's beautiful! But under the blanket of romance, " the battle of the sexes " is raging. On occasion it flares out into the open and the war is on. Each blaming the other for the romance going sour. Because its much easier to blame blindly than to accept our contribution to it. What happens, well when the romance doesn't " electrify " the senses anymore, it's time to break it off and try again with someone else.
Sad, because most couples see a relationship as it doing something for them, making them feel good, feel loved, feel connected and so on. When in fact, a relationship isn't supposed to do anything for anybody. Each partner is supposed to do something for the relationship, by giving, working at it, growing and serving. And as for " happiness ", well that's the by-product. In any relationship, you get out of it what you put into it. To begin with the desire has to be there, to want to create and shape a relationship. So to cut a long story short, couples need to sharpen up their sensitivities; take each other for granted and " trouble will most likely follow."
2006-07-28 10:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion in a relationship is a transitory stage. There are higher levels than passion. I have to disagree with you, passion doesn't fade but gets substituted with more important things like feeling at ease and comfortable with the person. Love is stronger than just brutal desire. By the way passion can take many forms...Just think about it.
2006-07-28 09:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion will always fade, ask anyone who has been marrie dover 20 years. It is the love that stays, not the passion.
2006-07-28 09:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.usually,once the affair has gone on a while,people decide that the only common ground they have is physical attraction,once they try to find something more,it all fizzles away
2006-07-28 09:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by backlashwarrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think because after you have experienced passion, you know that you have time to experience more with that person you felt such passion for. passion brings us together, understanding keeps us together.
2006-07-28 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only eat Frootloops so many times before you want some cornflakes.
2006-07-28 09:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz life is twisted like that. or maybe thats not the "right" person
2006-07-28 09:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people get used to each other and they feel bored.
2006-07-28 09:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by ☆LiAn☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋