Recently I have been paranoid about my husbands actions. He has been quite distant. Something have never done is called a phone number that has been on the bill for quite sometime. A girl named Katie, message came on..I did not leave a message. To make things worse...I called my husband and asked him who she was. He blew up at me...rightfully so...because....I DIALED THE WRONG FREAKING NUMBER....the number was actually my pager. I am so embarrased and ashamed. These feelings I have are not what I have felt before. We are newly married.....PLEASE don't beat me up with your comments...I already feel terrible. I need to make restitution with him. I truly hurt his feelings. I feel awful. I know I need to relax....but his behavior makes me nervous at times. This is my second marriage and his 3rd. Advice on making this situation right would be appreciated. Please don't be mean!! Thank you.
2006-07-28 01:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I jump to conclusions all of the time, girl. You are not alone in this. Tonight, either take him out to a nice restaruant or fix him a very nice dinner at home. Romance the hell out of him. I know guys aren't usually romantic, so sexy it up. Don't keep apologizing, it gets old. I would do the home thing, that way you can wear only an apron, but not while you're cooking, it could turn ugly. Don't tell him you're stupid or an idiot, it's like saying "you married a dumb ***". Say you're sorry you made a mistake and this whole marriage thing is new to you as it is to him, too. So, instead of fighting, why don't we act like the newlyweds we are and eat dinner. He may laugh at that, it will atleast lighten the mood. Take him to the bedroom and work your magic. Good luck.
2006-07-28 04:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by brandiwhine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a heart to heart. You are clearly insecure and I am sure you have your reasons. Apologize, apologize, apologize and mean it. He's probably distant because you are probably driving him nuts with your insecurity. I can't believe you didn't recognize your own pager number, you were probably so worked up about it you didn't realize that little important piece of information.
You might want to go into some counseling, if you keep accusing him he might do it just to shut you up. He married you, he loves you let yourself be loved. Let him know it isn't about him, it's about you. If you can't trust the man you married you don't need to be with him.
I hope you find your power.
2006-07-28 02:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you sorry then make sure that you don't do this again.Everyone make mistake sometime just let this be a lesson to not call number next time be more careful what you say and do.Good luck
2006-07-28 02:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a mistake. Explain you feel like he has been a little pre-ocupied lately and you have a momentary lack in judgement. You sound like your the doormat in this relationship. We all have moment of insecurity and if he is going to get that hostile over something like that....maybe he is in fact doing something he shouldnt be doing.
2006-07-28 02:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u fairly wanna keep this courting... Talk to heena first and make certain that she has converted.. After that, attempt to persuade your mum and dad.. and make her speak on your mum and dad... Best needs.. Don't fear... Everything will probably be ok once more :)
2016-08-28 16:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are sorry and start showing him that you trust him, i.e. get over your jealousy (which is pretty normal, but sucks).
Cook him a nice meal or (you know)... Guys are easy like that.
2006-07-28 02:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by DizzyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk along the beach ,and think positive only allow thoughts to enter your mind that are happy or humorous
2006-07-28 07:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have worn your mint flovored shoes yikes good luck.
2006-07-28 02:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋