If you have completely destroyed your spouse's ability to trust you, and they have given you a very small percentage of chance of the situation ending in anything other than divorce, what can you do to regain their tust and love?
2006-07-28 01:56:29 · 8 answers · asked by AshamedHusband 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try counseling. Betrayal is the cancer of a marriage -- usually terminal.
2006-07-28 02:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How big of a percentage?
If she has said there is a small chance, you may have a way to win her back.
If she has basically told you, "When Hell Freezes Over First," it's not going to happen.
And if she's already told you that and you keep pestering her, trying to convince her that she's wrong to dump you and that you're now suddenly going to be the man of your dreams, all you're going to do is cause her more hurt and anger.
Love & trust are something fragile, and when you destroy that, you cannot repair it.
Learn from your mistakes, be a better man to your next partner, and let her move on and heal.
2006-07-28 07:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by wifewhoknows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time and a lot of work. If you are willing to go down that long bumpy road then you need to start out with the small things. Do what you are saying you're gonna do, don't give excuses, and be honest.
2006-07-28 02:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience. It takes a long time to rebuild trust in a relationship.
I goofed up once & won't ever do it again. He's too important to me.
2006-07-28 02:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ann Chovie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably Never
2006-07-28 02:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by MRGQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highly unlikely you ever will.
2006-07-28 03:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99.9% of the time you never will,
2006-07-28 06:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, it will tell
2006-07-28 02:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋