my friend and I are having problems she knows my biggest secret and she told her other friend in the states and I am really hurt about that cause it was kinda personal but we are BEST friends so i tell her everything, what should I do?
2006-07-28 01:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by sweetblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her, tell her that what she did was wrong and that she betrayed your trust. I'm sorry to say this but she doesn't seem like a true best friend if she would tell your secrets like that. Best friends dont do that to one another
2006-07-28 01:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Azure Demure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was obviously a test in your friendship and unfortunately, your friend didn't pass. The best thing to do was to let her know gently that you really didn't want anyone to know and leave it at that; you don't have to go searching for a long apology. Then, in the future, you just have to be careful with what you tell her. It's hard cause I'm sure you guys are GREAT friends, but it's better if you don't want her to go blabbing your stuff for you to just keep it too yourself. Oh, and one last thing: Be sure to show her a good example by keeping her secrets between the two of you; maybe she'll pick up! Good luck!
2006-07-28 01:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you didnt like the fact that she told your biggest secret to another person and she has to respect you 4 that cuz everyone has secrets and you 2 r good friends.
2006-07-28 01:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really tell her how you feel. Tell her that she gave away your biggest secret and that you're loosing your trust in her. Also, ask her why she did that.
If she doesn't seem to listen, but you really want to still be best friends, just don't tell her very big secrets. Besides, I don't think that a BEST friend would give away your BIGGEST secret!
It matters on how much you still really trust her.
2006-07-28 02:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by house md rocks! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her secrets she seems like a 2 faced bit c h
2006-07-28 01:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE BRAVE . and never told ur secret speacily to girls ,coz they have the habbiets to telling secrets, and not care of any body , be brave and take things light,coz u cannot die if ur secret goes out, but u should be brave to face world
2006-07-28 01:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by MUQSIT Umar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like her who needs enemies? She may have jealousy issues, or she may be so fascinated by you that she can't help talking about you to everyone. Either way, don't confide in her anymore. You may have to start journalling.
2006-07-28 01:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and ask her why she back stabbed you. I think that was very mean of your friend. Also you should explain to her how badly it hurted you, and how its probably going to be hard for you to trust her again.
2006-07-28 02:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by SF71321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt anyone know how to write sentences properly in ANSWERS?
2006-07-28 01:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Bloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋