2006-07-28 01:50:43 · 26 answers · asked by Kristi S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are 100% gay ewwww.
2006-07-28 01:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on who you're comming out to. I was afraid that my father would shoot me when I told him, while other people have really cool, understanding hippy parents and open minded friends. The best advice I can give you is you have to accept yourself first. Come to terms with your sexuality and be proud of who you are. Tell people that will actually keep their mouths shut and who are going to be the most open minded first. Get that support group built up first. Like someone else mentioned, if you don't have very many people that will be supportive makes friends in the community first that will be your rock through what may or may not be a tough time. Also, be responsible about it. If you're not out on your own and might get kicked out for being gay, it would probably be best not to come out to the people that are putting a roof over your head just yet.
Good luck!
2006-07-28 10:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend from elementary school had the issue. He was afraid to tell me for fear that I would not like him anymore, so I was the last person he came to.
He called me up and asked if I wanted to hang out for the night, of course I did. So on our way to a club he was talking and then told me but to his surprise I told him I already knew. He couldn't figure out how I knew and no one else did. I told him when your as close to someone as I was to him its kind of hard not to know. He was then worried and asked me if I was still going to talk to him and be his friend I told him that if he thought I would stop being his friend after 13 yrs then he was crazy. I knew he was different when I met him at 5yrs, sounds crazy but its true I know he was born that way.
Unfortunately some of his other close friends told him to never speak to them and I once again stepped up to the plate and let him know that they were never initially his friend if they could forget about the things they been through and the good times they had.
Its never an easy task to tell someone your gay but if they love you for who you are and not the way you are there will be no problems. I think everything will be fine and I'm sure everyone will support you. I do.
2006-07-28 09:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tigger7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's an easy way but I am sure people have probably suspected, think about it a man/woman who shows no interest in males/females, we all suspect !
Go to a gay bar, meet lots of new friends, who have probably already gone through this and I am sure you will get plenty of support and advice.
Remember that people who truly like or love you will still feel the same way about you, if they don't then I'm afraid they weren't the people you thought they were - and that's their problem not yours. Good luck.
2006-07-28 08:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Easy"? Not really. The "how" is kind of an individual choice thing. It is pretty easy with new people; that's a plus. Just bring it up whenever it comes up (when people are talking about bf's, or the cute guy over there, or whatever). Family and friends? Not as easy, usually.
2006-07-30 06:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, just prepare yourself for the worst and hope for the best. You can start by coming out to close friends first. There are many online resources regarding coming out. Do it slowly and at your own pace. Only you know when you're ready
2006-07-28 10:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by coasterjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came out properly to my parents last Monday.
I wrote them a letter and left it in the car while I was at work. It all turned out fine :) (However, my parents are not your parents and friends so your may react differently).
I told a close online friend first last August - That way you can switch them off if things get out of hand.
2006-07-28 08:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by djw008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I think I am about 20% gay. Not enough to like guys, but just enough to confuse the hell out of women.
Deal with it. Almost everyone is in the minority on something. You don't have to flaunt it, and others like you probably exist in your community.
2006-07-28 08:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the coming out resources at the Human Rights Campaign website. They will help you to plan your coming out.
2006-07-28 08:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear the coming out shirt on your avater
2006-07-28 08:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Santa's Personal Shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋