I have always been small chested and always felt intimanated by women with large breast.My nightmare has come true.I married a man who is obcessed with large breast.I catch him looking up big breast on the computer and every magazine he buys features big breast.None of wich he looks at while Im around.This is really hurting my feelings and I dont even want to have sex with him any more,I feel embarressed.I cant afford a boob job and I dont like feeling this way.What should I do.
2006-07-28 01:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by carolinagirlatk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry you married a pig. There is no reason to be intimidated by a large breasted woman. It said in your profile that you work out and stay in shape. Sounds perfect to me. Size is not important.......rather are they responsive.
I suggest that turnabout is fair play. Let him "discover" that you are looking at pictures of men with large penises. I'm sure he will confront you as most men are insecure in this area. Once he does, you can talk to him about the problem and express how his behavior has hurt you. Not sure if he will change, but it is a start.
Good Luck!
2006-07-28 02:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing. Your husband must love you....ALL of you or he wouldnt have married you. The problem is not your husband, it is you. You obviously feel very insecure about your breast size. Try a padded bra, and inserts to give you a fuller look. So he looks at boobs....all men do. It does not mean he doesnt love you or find you attractive. Maybe share your feelings with him and possibly start saving a few dimes here and there so eventually a breast enlargement would be possible. Best of Wishes.
2006-07-28 01:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, ive been there. I had to have kids b4 i got some decent size breasts.lol. Not that i recommend that.. I no that it is really hard when u turn every corner and there are girls with breasts bigger than there heads, i lived it for many years. When you work out your breasts get smaller, so dont exercise as much, tell your man that this hurts your feelings.Because of your insecurities about your breasts it may seem to u that he is obsessed, but it may be just u. I wish you all the best...........
2006-07-28 01:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not , this is not your creation , anything in this world is gifted by the God , so you must respect and adour your own body , if your husband sees , big boo , why you bother or feel bad till he is and making love with you and taking care of all your need . Pl be little sensitive about others feeling , atleast he is coming back to you every night , pl do co-operate with him , don't put ypur self in pity condition .
2006-07-28 01:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't go around looking at other men's privates, especially men that are bigger than him. But you can start doing that since he's setting the example that it's ok to look at other people like that.
2006-07-28 01:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn the tables on him. start looking at men with big dic*s on the computer or in a magazine and let him accidentally catch you looking at them. see how he feels. bet he feels a bit inferior, just like he's making you feel
2006-07-28 01:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly can't be all about boobs for him or he wouldn't have married you. It does appear he likes boobs though. I would strongly suggest you sit down and explain to him how you feel. If you want a boob job because you want one, not because he wants bigger boobs then go for it. You don't have to pay in full these days. They have other payment arrangements. I'm going in September to get mine, but it's for me, not because my man wants me to have bigger ones
2006-07-28 01:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you keep cutting him off from sex, he's only going to look more. You show him your the only woman he needs, reguardless of breast size. Keep him satisfied at home and he won't need to look elsewhere.
2006-07-28 01:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is an slow and fun process to enlarge yur ladies.
U can either do sit ups,play with them like squeeze,slap,pinch or have him do those things to them.
If he gets carried away with it grab his nipple and pinch with ur nails then say that hurt huh don't be so rough.
2006-07-28 01:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by therealhumantorch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him! there's no way you should feel bad about your body because of him!! Anyway, if he were SO obsessed with boobs he wouldn´t have married you. So, discuss it with him: he can´t take your self-steam down because he can´t keep this stupid habit controlled.
2006-07-28 01:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋