2006-07-28 00:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
75% or more woman does not come by thrusting of penis in to the vagina, but most will reach orgasm if are played with clitoris, by hand or tongue.
other reason is that some woman has to learn to reach orgasm, that is why if you have not skilled lover I would recommend to masturbate at first by yourself with hand (fingers) on your clitoris, if you will be able to reach orgasm than you can explain to your partner how to do it,
you did not say if you are on any type of drugs, but there is amount of specific drugs, for example antidepresants which causes anorgasmia (unabilyty to reach orgasm) or partial-anorgasmia.
if masturbation will not help please consult specialist like sexuologist or gynecologist
you can also buy book called Kamastura, there should be description what man should perform on female clitoris to make her orgasm, and you can try it with your partner, or you can just tell your partner to "go down on you" and experience:)
partial-anorgasmia may be also caused by stress or focusing on partners pleasure more than yours, other is that you try too much reach orgasm so you just can not make it, i could advice you just enjoy yourself while your partner will use one of methods ive just mentioned here.
oh and there is one more position it is back-entry when your partner is penetrating you from back and he uses his one hand to masturbate your clitoris, it is also possible to play with clitoris during frontal penetration
have a nice sex :)
2006-07-28 04:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The majority of women cannot climax through penetration alone, they generally need a *helping hand*
There is also the fact that if a woman is trying too hard to orgasm, she will not relax properly, therefore making it harder to reach that point.
The third reason just may be that some women have more sensitive genitalia than others, meaning that it may take longer to turn them on to the point of orgasm.
2006-07-28 07:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sure most women CAN HAVE ORGASMS but some take a long time and need a sensitive lover.
2006-07-28 11:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by cate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the man they are having sex with does not know how to treat his lady. Or maybe they have some psycological problems that they are not aware of.
2006-07-28 07:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by alco 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe carnt have orgams whiel have sex maybe thay have orgams be for sex
2006-07-28 07:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by DOLL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because some need plenty of foreplay before to get her into the mood instead of going straight into sex
2006-07-28 12:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by munchie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wel its usually coz the person is not doin it the way she wants i think 4 a woman to orgasm during sex one must know how to push her buttons
2006-07-28 07:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by abdurazake s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right horse , wrong jockey ! Q: Why do some women fake orgasm ? A: Because they think we give a damn!
2006-07-28 18:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by billpeterson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's probable one of the best questions asked. I believe it's because the guy does not know what to do and is too eager to climax himself rather that please the gal.
2006-07-28 07:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Morphious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance of man,lack of foreplay,PE and some positions of sex.Frigidity and lastly PMS
2006-07-28 08:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋