Was it mistake or not?

Question

Some people say: "What you have done was mistake" in order to make us suffer.
I have always tried to do my best. But some people say it was always my guilt, not theirs. Should I blame myself because they like me to feel such way?

Answer 1

Okay there would be no world if you didnt mistake you have to its how you learn so dont let others put you down just let it go its only human to make mistakes remember that

Answer 2

First of all.... How old are you? If you are under 20 or so, you are probably just resenting your family trying to teach you right from wrong. Remember they love you and don't want you to get hurt. If you do whatever it is, they will still love you, but you probably will get hurt.

When I was between the ages of 13 and 22, I did a lot of crazy stuff and then resented my family trying to make me feel guilty. The truth was they weren't trying to make me feel guilty, they were trying to help and guide me, but I couldn't see that.

You don't have to live your life for others, but you should think carefully about what you do and be willing to hear the opinion of those who love you.

p.s. I don't believe in "mistakes" as long as you learn something from what you have done. Many of my "mistakes" were lessons that I'm glad I learned.

Answer 3

The ultimate judge of yourself is you. Accept others' opinions and input, but make your own decision. If you can honestly say that whatever it was you did was not your fault, then don't accept blame from others. On the other hand, if they are right, and you know they are, then accept the guilt, learn from your mistake, and move on.

Answer 4

It is your self esteem that is important. If you can live with your conscience, then whatever you do is right. But remember it is your self esteem and your conscience that u have to answer to.