i'm 17/f.. n' i commute by my car everyday.. to school..
but there are a coupla gals.. who wouldn't leave me alone! lyk.. da momen da last class gets over.. they rush to the gate.. n say.. please.. we're coming.. i'm thru with being polite!.. i don't like anyone to stick wit me whenever i go.. they're like.. please drop us.. please.. this n dat.. tho they're quite gud frns.. but i dont like it..
once ina while is ok.. but they're makin it a habbit!.. what should i do!?
2006-07-28 00:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea ok.. i do that once.. ' i hav a prior commitment'.. but they're so shameless.. they come runnin behin .. da next day itself!
2006-07-29 22:13:24 · update #1
Tell them you really want to help, but you have a life and that after school you want to meet the boys at times. make it clear that you are not always available, and that when you can drop them you will be telling them.
2006-07-28 00:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break that habit. Tell them your car takes gas just like anyone else's. From now on the rule is to give you cash before getting into your car. With the price of gas now a days, set the rate at $10 per person if not more and see how fast they run to you expecting you to take them somewhere. If they don't like it, they can call a cab, mooch off someone else or start walking.
2006-07-28 00:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very frank with them. When you give them a ride, expect to get some gasoline money from them. You are being used for your wheels! Just tell them; "not today, ladies, I have a prior commitment". You don't have to tell them what it is; you don't have to drag them where ever you go. Or you can tell them the day before: "tomorrow I won't be able to carry passangers"...that's it. Just be tough about it and YOU put a stop to it. people can't take advantage of you unless you allow them to do it.
2006-07-28 00:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all people who tells you this is psychosomatic is in basic terms finding for an excuse to drill a hollow on your head. That being mentioned, i think of you're of course posessed with the aid of demons. What did they use to treatment that for the period of the midsection a protracted time, lower back...? enable me think of.
2016-10-08 10:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient n quite. also give a smile 2 them, then they'll respect u more. Don't show ur anger then when u show it ONCE, they'll be scary.
2006-07-28 00:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to back off and give you some space.
2006-07-28 02:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just assure them and tell them the truth,they'l leave you alone.
2006-07-28 00:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get treated the way you allow yourself to be treated.
2006-07-28 00:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no to them ...... and try to explain ur reason ...... if they are ur true friend they will understand ur problem ....... and if they dont understand then that means ... they are not ur true friend .... so in that case just say no to them ... straight forward ..... because the are not ur true friends ...... i thing u got my point
2006-07-28 00:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by deep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say
hey screw u guys i'm goin' home
i don't like u guys ok?!
leave me alone!!
2006-07-28 00:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by baby g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋