I might be the only person that knows where to find her. Her parents want me to go find her. She dumped me in a bad way. i still care for her but i dont want to get involved in her problems any more. What would u do?
2006-07-27 23:52:02 · 20 answers · asked by Bogels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't want to be involved, don't be involved. It was her choice to go, let her make her own decisions. You don't know her reasoning, it's irrelevent anyway.
The only time you have a moral obligation to be 'involved' is if the police think anything criminal has happened. Other than that I'd stay out of it.
If the police think there's enough of a problem to bang on your door then you talk to them. I certainly wouldn't be pressed into going on a 'rescue mission' to satisfy the parents of an ex.
Whatever you choose hope it goes well for you.
2006-07-28 01:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by salvationcity 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You have 2 ways to sort things out:
1) Go and find her, help her come out of this situation, but don't turn back to her. If she needs help, it's better if you help her, and make her understand how wrong she was to dump you.
2) Tell her parents where she might be and maybe give her a call just to ask how she's doing.
If you see any third better option go for it!
Good luck
2006-07-28 00:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bogels, You are obviously worried for your ex either at her home or where she is now. Your best bet is to stay away from her and her parents but to inform the police of your concerns. I realise going to the police may appear to make things worse but the main thing is to make sure that she is safe. Good luck. T.
2006-07-28 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her parents what you know. That would be the right thing to do. Unless her parents are abusive and she is trying to get away from them.
But if you know where she is and do not tell, you could be commiting a crime.
2006-07-27 23:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 10:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents where you think she may be explain to them she called off your relationship and you do not wish to be involved and let them do the rest it is not your problem.
2006-07-28 00:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell the parents where she is and let them deal with it.. She is an Ex-- that means no more so why should you be the one to go get her if it was her that dumped you?
Come on it's not your problem anymore and wat she does is hers, so rid of the burden and let the family deal with it..
2006-07-27 23:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her parents everything you know... let them go and find her, she's their responsibility...don't get involved, this has nothing to do with you anymore.
2006-07-28 00:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents where to find her, and since you don't want to deal with it anymore, just let the parents deal with it.
2006-07-27 23:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you know were she might be you must tell her parents,dont think about what your feeling, put them first and think what they must feel, explain that you still have feeling for her but dont want to be involved again, and leave it at that,
2006-07-28 00:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by tors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋