2006-07-27 23:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by globalboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you were more dependent on her for your happiness than she was with you.
I suggest you start actively doing other things to keep your mind preoccupied.
Service is the best antidote, second is time.
Spend time with family and your best guy friends and doing things for other people.
Best wishes!
2006-07-27 23:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
I know the pain sucks but the pain will pass and the worth of finding the one that can love you back the way you love will make all this struggle seem minor. Until then, go ahead, wallow in your self pity until you recognize in your heart that this doesn't get you anywhere. Then you can climb out of the wallow, shower off and start all over with a brand new outlook.
2006-07-28 06:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it hurts so much, doesn't it?
You guys together for a long time?
Best thing to do is: Take time out for yourself, improve you quality of life, spend time with friends - make new friends (they always know other people and who knows - maybe you'll find somebody BETTER?)
Start studying something - get a new sport to practise (might even meet some interresting people over there)
Keep yourself preoccupied - I know that time heals but you shouldn't waste it!
REMEMBER:
"THE WORLD DOES NOT STOP FOR YOUR GRIEF"
2006-07-28 07:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say I'm sorry because I know what you are going through. My boyfriend dumped me for another girl after we had been dating for 2 years. I was devastated. It literally ruined who I was. But I picked myself up & got over it. After a year & a half he came crawling back & after a lot of trust issues being resolved, we have been together for 8 years & it couldn't be better. I am actually glad it happened because it gave us time to grow.
Moral: If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it was meant to be! (& if it doesn't come back, then you'll find even better love elsewhere)
2006-07-28 06:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be hard for you to get over your gf, but life moves on and if you weren't ment for each other, then you should follow her example and start dating. Who knows?...Maybe you find the perfect girl for you in a place you never looked before. Good luck :)
2006-07-28 06:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've decided you're not ready, willing or able... to take on a life together... just go your separate ways.
When negotiations stop... the possibility and probability of other relationships start.
2006-07-28 06:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'est La Vie
2006-07-28 06:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seem like she was just pulling ur chain. and why do u need and person like that. find u someone that well make u happy and forget about her. show her ur not going to sit around and be unhappy while she happy. with her new bf u need to get over her. sometime u show and person your over them it make them see what they were missing. worked with my hubby were married now.
2006-07-28 06:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PART OF THE GAME.
BE MATURE ENOUGH.
TAKE THE WHOLE THING IN ITS STRIDE.
2006-07-28 06:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will heal you
2006-07-28 06:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kalahari_Surfer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋