what should i do about my ex friend shes 19 im 16 we were very close and saw each other all the time and had a blast together well all the sudden she stopped coming over acted like she didnt want me around or anything and her BF is 22 he is now buying her beer and they go out and get drunk all the time what should i do?
2006-07-27 23:22:48 · 10 answers · asked by freded_124 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let it go is what you do. your friend is under the influence illegally I might add and has chosen a friend that can provide alcohol. Don't put yourself in the situation of being around this person. You too could end up possibly in jail, or probation just being in the right place at the wrong time.
consider yourself lucky. this friend has no real value in friendships. There are other friends out there in the gene pool of friends so find others to be friends with.
2006-07-27 23:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....this may seem hard to you, but I think you should try and forget her. If she likes drinking beer more than you...then it's her problem, not something that you have said or done. Start going out, meet new people and don't give up. The right girl for you will surely appear. Good luck and cheer up! It's not the end of the world; she just wasn't good enough for you :)
2006-07-28 06:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously the drinking and things mean more to her.. i would just forget her and try to find other friends that do not want to drink...she will learn sooner or later that she lost a good friend.. and the boyfriend being as old as he is does not help her any..but i would not worry about it.. she was not a real friend if you understand what i mean.. we meet lots of people but only some of them are really our true friends... true friends are hard to come by in this world today.. all they think about is theirself..and that is good too but a true friend stands by you whether a guy comes into their life or not..
2006-07-28 06:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen..... you have not yet completed ur high school... you will come to meet people more good people when u enter ur college... untill then it will be safe 4 u if u have friends of ur age... so dont worry that she is no more your friend ok... just keep going on with your studies ...cause u might also get addicted like her to beer and all other un wanted stuffs if u have friendship with such kind of people...
2006-07-28 07:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by cool dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm as hard as it seems i think you shouldtry to forget about her. she has obviously wanted someone older that can do the things she can.
i think you should just be a friend, if that...
its for the best.
and... if she decides she really loves you then she will come back... whos to tell!!
hope what i have said helps you in any way!
2006-07-28 06:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fiorget her her bf may knock u out whilst being drunk
2006-07-28 06:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by venom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study hard, get a education, u have a great future ahead.
2006-07-28 06:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by crashonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u leave her ...... u will always think of her because u like her ..... thats why do propose her ..... if she likes u ..... she will agree with u ..... and if she dont ....... u will learn things from ur experience which will help u in future
2006-07-28 06:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by deep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to forget about her.i'm 14yrs and if u want to IM me its's appiah_louisa2006@yahoo.com
2006-07-28 06:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by ladycharming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her . the age diffrence in you two matter pal .
2006-07-28 06:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sidd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋