What did it do to you and how did you cope?
2006-07-27 23:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by stingmyflesh 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I didn't notice it was happening to be honest, it was subtle at first but gradually got worse. By the time I realised how mean he was, I really had become a 'victim' - and I don't do 'victim'! I had been totally crushed; I had no confidence and very low self esteem. I doubted myself and my sanity. - I couldn't believe I'd allowed this to happen to me.
I took what little energy I had left and I walked away, I never looked back.
And I will never, ever, let another human being treat me like that again.
2006-07-28 01:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Victoria of Port 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never been a victim of this but I have victimised several girls in the past. I am sorry to say this was my philosophy, but after reflection, I am horrified at the hurt I must have caused. I now have the philosophy of treating people the way I like to be treated.
I would like to meet up with these girls I treated so mean and give them my sincerest apologies. However there were so many I would not know where to begin.
So just to clear my own selfish Conscience heres a BIG SORRY to them all.
SORRY!
2006-07-28 08:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by V 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I was always been there! I trusted everybody before and pleasing them when they visits me,sleep in my bed,open my ref and consume my groceries!Now I know how to say NO and I don't care if they don't like me,Id better talk to myself than being used by those sucking slimes! I learned more lessons from that people pretending as my friends!
2006-07-28 06:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a low tolerance to be treated badly, so if a girl trys her tricks she just gets shouted at. Anymore and shes gone.
There is no point having a crappy life because someone wants to control you.
2006-07-28 06:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I subscribe to this theory having tried other philosophies which did not work - such as "smother them with kindness" and "treat them as equals".
2006-07-28 07:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced the bas7ard
2006-07-28 06:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Iluv24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop somebody from being mean, but you definately can stop them from being mean to you!
2006-07-28 08:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by floxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kicked their a*s
2006-07-28 06:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋