I was in love with a girl online for 5 years, now she is engaged. we want to get marry. I am feeling so alone. i am feeling pain even though i say to myself, i will be okay with time. do you think, she will comes in my thinking forever or it will forget her with time?....does time heal?.....any experienced guys and girls?
2006-07-27 23:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by Sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yo sona,it been a great thing to love but a tragedy to be a victim of it.you see,love is one aspect the human race has never been able to understand and crack given state of the art technology.See,its pretty simple this situation here, cause i first of all have been through the whole process myself and have now helped more than a thousand people on such dreadfull love cases like this.To tell you the thruth,time is the key,but i can tell you something,there will never be another love for you.cause its pretty simple,you have loved this girl with all your heart that when its time to let go or give up,theres jsut too much that your heart wont let go and accept other girls.Its kinda like saying,there goes youre love life.It may sound hard at first glance but believe me,you will find,with time and only with time will those feelings go away,but never will youre heart for her.Dude,if you have persisting problems anytime,please send me a message.Im always there to help a brother out.
2006-07-28 00:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Yes baby, time heals all wounds. With time passing, if you help yourself by thinking towards the future and not the past, concentrating on other beautiful things in the world and not her face and words, then you will be better sooner. Don't hold back your tears, but don't begin to sulk in them either. Get out and take good care of yourself. You'll have some good days and a few bad days until the good strongly outweigh the bad. Yes, we are experienced in this and it really is true what they say, "it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all." Be grateful (yes, gratitude can get you through ANYTHING) and then move on. Best wishes to you.
2006-07-28 06:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, time will heal. But it can take a long time. For me, I didn't even look at another woman for a whole year after my gf and I split up. Now I'm dating again.
Don't sit at home and wallow in your pain. Go out with your friends, have a good time. You'll see it will take your mind of of her and the pain she's caused.
2006-07-28 06:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by pete_can_do 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time does heal and it goes on even faster when you do things that doesn't relate to her. if you two met online, try getting off. if you two talked a lot about music, try not listening to what she likes best. what did you guys talk about mostly?, try not doing them for a while. of course, you can't dodge everything that will remind you of her, but that's the beauty of it. it's good to think about her once and again because that just means she's thinking of you too. believe me, even if she's engaged, you're still in her thoughts - even if it's just every now and again. women don't forget things easily.
2006-07-28 06:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tropicala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You currently experiencing the biggest pain a person can ever do. I knw how it feels.....
But u have to accept facts. U have to be practical and live life as it comes.
Time heals everything.....almost everything....believe me....
2006-07-28 06:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by loking4_party_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes time will heel every thing.i know its hard to accept the fact that you have to stay without a person whom you have loved and dreamt of everything with him or her... but trust me with the passage of time you will get better.
initially it would be difficult,, the pain and you will miss the moments you have shared together. but be strong and try to busy as much as you can.. keeping yourself busy will help you.
2006-07-28 06:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time certainly will heal , after some time you will be surprised , you even , don't remember her correct name , so relax and continue your task , new one is coming in your life ,very soon .
2006-07-28 06:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for physical pain we have tablets.
but for a broken heart the only tablet you can swallow is "time" in some it has immediate affect in others it doesnt. just take one day at a time and keep yourself busy with thing you like
2006-07-28 06:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by mercia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never met her ... and you wanted to get married?
How do you know for sure she was even a girl?
2006-07-28 08:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-07-28 06:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by jedi_fren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋