I'm too Vastly read to let it get in my way, but Solomon did say that we should ask for advice. She knows I want to become a doctor and she thinks that all those years she spent hitting me and starving my child and I will make me likely to leave once I'm so educated. I pass every thing by huge margins so it's just a matter of time before I become a doctor and *she knows it*. Like anything that marks us on our ability, like maths, I do well with. I got 90% in maths, top of class by a whole 9%. In English I got my lowest score, but even then I was about average. Plus, in English, I was told that my 'grammar was perfect', and Doctor David Ross said my 'writing was good'; so my English is good too.
[Btw, it's her child too]
2006-07-27 22:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump her and take the kid with you. Why would she be so selfish? Do you neglect her needs or something like that? This is not a healthy relationship for you or the kid. And congrats on you awesome scores.
2006-07-27 22:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband did the same thing to me while I was in college.
I understand exactly how this is affecting you. I can only tell you what I did....
I asked him to explain his behavior. He said he was feeling ignored. I tried hard to give him as much attention as I could...because that is what they are seeking. Like you, I did well in school..and I wanted to continue to do well. Of course the marriage failed. He became abusive and resented my education. My goal was to better our situation....his was to hold me back.
If you love your wife and want the marriage to continue....
My advice is to talk to her and set up an evening that you can set aside just for her. She has to agree...and support you the rest of those days that you cannot devote totally to her.
She should NEVER neglect the child....THIS CONCERNS ME!!!! For this action of her warrants more attention from you to the child for its care. She cannot take her anger out on you , therefore she is acting out on the child...THIS NEEDS TO STOP!!!
I wish you the very best!!
2006-07-28 05:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by neuronurse38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear I believe that the good wife is pushing her husband to the front ,if she is doing that why don't you ask her why ,you should talk about it ,ask her to put herself in your shoes would she be happy if you act the same with her,and finally do not give up of your dream that's all what you have for your self never let anybody to stop you.
2006-07-28 05:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by styleinvistigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.....college..is good......but don't forget that she is ur wife.....maybe u pay more attention to her...she is a human being too...talk to her.....surprise her in smth make smth special to her....make her happy don't complain....it's the easiest way.....
2006-07-28 05:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the most important person...follow your dreams. She sounds jealous. I will date you!
2006-07-28 05:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
conceited, as well as angry....
2006-07-28 09:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by rami #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋