2006-07-27 21:57:53 · 23 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you feel lonely all the time, when you are all by yourself or in the crowd? 'Cause if you are, there is no cure for your loneliness. Try not to be so demanding when it comes to people.
2006-07-27 22:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Gersin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 types of loneliness, either you are alone because you don´t have a family, friends or a lover or you have many people around you but you fell yourself alone.
The first loneliness is not a problem you only need to make acquaintance with many neu people and try to have friends.
The second is very difficult because it means that you are at the moment facing a very difficult situation , it is a psychological problem. I have at the moment this problem and I try to be all the time busy and to think about the positive sides in this world: i am healthy and I have a word and not all the people have these advantages.
2006-07-28 06:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by sony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem until this year......i had low self confidence and didnt go out to meet ppl.
then i bought a pc and put it online and i havnt looked back since...does it sound stupid,maybe,but it worked for me...
i started off looking for chat rooms and inadvertently found a dating site..it seemed like it might be fun,but i was careful to make sure that everyone knew i was only looking for friendship.
i actually made alot of friends on that site and i'm still in contact with most of them now....after 4 months my confidence had rocketed and it showed in my every day life....pple were interested in what i had to say,i was becoming more out going and all because i'd started to chat on here..
then finally i went on another dating site.......and 6 weeks ago i was contacted by someone who is fast becoming my soulmate.....we are in contact every day and i've got a feeling things will work out.....and all because i took a chance ....i'm no longer lonely and i have something to look forward to after many years having nothing.......good luck
2006-07-28 13:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by julie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Yeah, it's very hard.
Try 1 or more dating websites. Some are free. It may work for you.
Also, if you do see a girl you like, please don't hesitate to nicely let her know.
I think that guys are far too shy, and it's not always easy for a girl to make the first move.
So, even if you get turned down, well, by trying you stand more chances to finally meet someone who'll like too.x
2006-07-28 14:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, we all come into this world alone(unless one is born a twin, triplet, etc)and we die alone. One way or another, you will be alone and it will hurt. When you find some free time, go out to some public places and meet new people that can help you out of your lonely times. You'll be okay darlin'.
2006-07-28 05:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will try to over come it by other things, but you will still be lonely the moment you hit you head on the pillow with no one to think about, you will still fill the emptiness like I do. Answers is my gap filler right now, but my bed is very cold and I am still lonely, so if you can find one to love you soon, please do so.
2006-07-28 05:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy with hobbies, and friends, learn who you are and find things you like to do. Everyone goes through this from one time or another in their lives the important thing is to not dwell on it and if you feel this way do something to entertain yourself so you don't dwell on it.
2006-07-28 05:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has to deal with this problem one way or another during life. If you aren't happy with your life as it is, try something different involving other people. The first step is often the hardest to take.
2006-07-28 05:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by ElderStud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mingle get out there have fun party besides im your friend and trust me no one is lonely you have family and hopefully a job at work just talk a little more im pretty sure you have friends at work and hopefully if you put yourself far enough out there some sweet lady will like you more than a friend
2006-07-28 05:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more times with friends and family, if that doesnt work, im here for ya. everyone deserves to b loved, not lonely... i'd email u but i cant, i tried sending u an email but it said that the email address that u gave me have been erased or something like that
2006-07-28 05:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by filipina279 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋