Hello Im a 22 year old college student. I should of graduated last spring but instead will be graduating in May. Which is great. I am having some trouble dealing with some things in my past. And it mainly involves a group of 6 or 7 close friends I had in high school. High School was one big party for me and my friends. As a result I was arrested 3 days after I graduated for pot. Anyways I also tended to get drunk and steal movies from this guy that I really wasnt a fan of by I was ****** up when I did and realized later on that I had messed up and I returned them, but I dont think he ever looked at me the same. I eventually quit talking to him. Everyone went to college and i gave a close friend of mine a movie i had taken not knowing it was his. Well after that everything went downhill everytime I was with them I felt like they were just ******* with my mind. They werent my friends. So i completely quit answering phone calls from them ! COntinue below
2006-07-27 21:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay now what happened was they recently started calling me and trying to get in contact with me. Well i never was able to answer it and then when i saw they called I never answered. Anyways so I am sort of in a bind as to what to do. I havent seen them in over 2 years and I just sort of disappeared. And it doesnt bother me Im happy with it. I wish that my high school friends could see me in a good light. Where as they already think im ****** up for not answering the phone. This has been bothering me for a long time and i dont know how to get it off my chest? Any ideas on how I can rid this terrible bullshit from me?
2006-07-27 21:55:22 · update #1
The feeling is a feeling of gulit and remorse as well as a feeling of total isolationism. I really wish I could make amends with them. But then again I sort of wish they would just go away and not bother me.
2006-07-27 21:56:41 · update #2
I dont feel like im better because they have all graduated from college one from harvard and Im the only one who hasnt graduated. They live in the same city as me. I really wish I could buy my own island and move to it and drink corona and have beautiful woman giving me massages!!!!!!!!!!!!! This has been bothering me for way to long
2006-07-27 21:59:24 · update #3
So would you suggest I just continue to avoid them and not answer any calls from them?
2006-07-27 22:00:35 · update #4
Wow. That is a tough situation to be in. But it sounds like you did the right thing by letting them go and moving on with your life. Good for you. You can't change the person you were back then and you can't change the people who were your friends, but you can definately change who you are now. Hang in there. I understand that you feel guilty, but staying friends with the same ppl who caused you to feel that way isn't going to solve the problem at all.
2006-07-27 21:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r grown up and have anwered your problem in the end.
just stay away from them and try to lead a normal life.
2006-07-28 05:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well youre better than them and wy do you care
2006-07-28 04:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by cassandra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋