2006-07-27 21:51:43 · 17 answers · asked by marko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her for more, or get the vaseline!
2006-07-27 21:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...first I recommend you tell her you want more and how you want it...perhaps if you tell her she may give in. I did that for my guy, when he told me he wanted more. Second, if she doesn't want to, it might be because she is tired or something..and if that is the case, then I recommend you give her a massage to start things off and tell her that you promise to "take care" of her...and make sure that she finishes...which definitely give you a chance to have sex with her more often. Third, I think maybe you should talk to her and make a deal with her, like let's say every time you do the dishes and clean the place up then she has to have sex with you...or something where both of you can agree on it. Fourth, women like to have sex with a guy who doesn't expect sex, and instead wants her to be happy so maybe you should see if you can try to get her to think that your not only in it for the sex...like take her to a restaurant or tell her that she doesn't have to do something that is a part of her daily routine and maybe she will be "thankful" in your favor. Lastly, romance is the key to getting her in bed...maybe you should take a bunch of candles and decorate your room and set the mood for sex...so this way she is impressed by your efforts and will look forward to having sex...and the best way to make sure she will have sex with you more often is to ask her exactly what does she want you to do to her...and then do what she wants the way she wants it, and if you do that and help her feel good, I am sure she will be willing to do the same for you...If you want you can email me to get some ideas in seducing your wife.
Furthermore, I don't recommend going out of the marriage, because even though you maybe having fun now, you won't be having much fun after she files for divorce and leaves with half your **** and then the one whom you were have a fling with leaves you because you are broke.
2006-07-28 05:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Be nice to her even when you don't want sex.
2. Make sure she's physically fine. She may have a need to see a medical doctor.
3. Ask her nicely without blaming her what is the impediment.
4. Ask yourself...are your personal habits off-putting...ie do you bathe? etc.
5. How do you speak to her? Tone of voice, body language, topics, demands?
6. If you have done damage to your relationship, it will not cure overnight. Marriage is work.
2006-07-28 04:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man are you screwed.... welcome too the holding pin, like most of us we wait for them to come into heat.... and wait...and wait... so I took up a hobby ... tried to talk, explain, please etc... and it never was like it should be. Just alot of bad feelings...
Married 22 years and she is finaly coming around to giving me some above the usuall for survival. Women go through alot of mental blocks, kids, family, cooking, cleaning etc..etc..etc... some arn't that way and love to *uck but are lousy mothers, shop aholics, and slutty wives etc.. be greatful for her gifts as a mother, wife and find joy in the peace she can bring into a home but also try to explain that a dieing man in the desert gets more water then your getting sex..... it won't help...but maybe she might feel a touch of guilt..... naahhh.. your screwed.
You could get a hotel room once in-awhile, get rid of the kids etc... do something SHE wants to do... look at flowers, yuck... or what ever... but like I told her.. now I am spending $150 for a room too get laid... I can't afford that .. so... again... screwed and I guess there is your sex.
Oh.. did I mention your screwed........ yup.... welcome to the pin.
2006-07-28 05:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' you EVEN think about cheating on her!!! Why won't she give you more? Maybe you need to "rekindle" your relationship. Try being romantic. Do the things that turn her on. But DO NOT turn into another cheating b@st@rd.
2006-07-28 04:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens theoretically, if your wife needs more sex than you do????? Answer this honestly and then do the same concerning yourself . . .
2006-07-28 05:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Joy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first talk to her, let her know how you are feeling. Hopefully that will work.. If not, then sometimes we have to fill voids outside of our marriage. It happens!
2006-07-28 08:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love her talk to her... Maybe if she isn't up for it she can just pleasure you. If not movies and toys work to fill the void..
2006-07-28 05:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a sin of looking someone other than you wife.
2006-07-28 05:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate alone then tell her the next day what you did. if she's smart... she'll get the hint. or masturbate while she's next to you, that might just turn her on and you'll get more s.e.x. with her.
2006-07-28 05:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tropicala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it tell her how you feel thats the only way she will know..u need to express you wants and needs to her..
2006-07-28 04:54:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋