My boyfriend broke w/ his gf about 2 months ago when we started together. They're living in for the past 6 years & parted ways. This ex-gf migrated to another country but still hopeful to have him back the moment she returns back here. Lately, this girl called him up & reminisced over their past & telling him if he had forgotten their past. My boyfriend really told me that they really had a bad relationship together & there was no love in their relationship. What tolerated him was her suicide attempts in case she loses him. The girl had many promises to change for him. Should I tolerate my boyfriend doing & telling me this. I'm starting to feel irritated & wants to release him.
2006-07-27 21:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion your boyfriend has been prudent in telling you everything about his and the ex-gf's relationship. This shows his commitment in ur relationship, don't let go off such a wonderful person just for the heck of an eerie doubt about his intentions. ALL THE BEST!!
2006-07-27 21:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Vanchit S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question seems to be the wrong way around. Should he tolerate you? Anyone who believes that a relationship that lasted for six years is because the girl was threatening suicide, really needs a rethink.
Wake up. Their relationship was a success for probably most of the six years. THey split up when something/s happened. Now the girl is trying to get him back, probably remembering the good times. If your boyfriend says things like "We are just friends now, we are just talking..." dump him and get a life. If he cuts her off without a further word and doesn't speak to her, forgive him and make him forget.
Either way, don't be naive.
2006-07-27 21:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by blind_chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cristina! have confidence me! Ur mom and dad r mo imporant than this guy. Blood is thicker than water. If u have not finished skool, then while r u goin 2? Movin 2 el' sal isn't goin to help somewhat. it is going to push u bak. U won't end hi skool. u won't get a large activity. N tha long-term, if u circulate wit him and he leaves u. U are caught like chuck. Po' and on my own. female toddler, do no longer do it. do no longer go away your loved ones for a youthful guy. If he loves you decrease back. while issues are over and completed with on his component, or what ever he is going to El' Salvador for, he will come decrease back for you. you're sixteen, and yeah i be attentive to age isn't something yet a variety, yet you may no longer MAKE IT accessible on your guy or woman. that's merely too lots of a huge probability. i will stay at homestead, and enable mom and dad look after me. no longer circulate out with some guy and could look after myself. the line which you're questioning approximately taking is an prolonged and complex one. i'm out here boo, and this international isn't a game. i prefer to circulate decrease back with my mothers and fathers each and each month. yet I could coach to myself that i will make it on my very own and that i'm no longer likely to lie, it seems as no count if that's getting extra good and extra good the older i'm getting. My real beginning mom and dad died, my mom while i exchange into 9 and my father while i exchange into 17, approximately to graduate extreme college. i can't commerce in, enable or choose the human beings that play the function of my mom and dad to circulate everywhere. enable alongside me go away them. circulate to college get an education. circulate to varsity and better your education. Make that funds boo. and that i mean criminal good funds. do no longer take the long complicated highway. Take a complicated yet less complicated way out. circulate to college, circulate to varsity. in line with risk for the period of faculty you adult men can meet decrease back up. you do not have that long and that i'm specific El' Salvador has a large college close to. additionally communicate this over inclusive of your boyfriend and your mom and dad. merely choose properly. good success!
2016-11-03 04:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur bf loves u &cresfor u too much i gues he shouldnt evn gv a damn thing that x-gf coz it only shows he still love her... having communication, still entertaining calls from that girl... dats very irritating if im in ur shoes.... i guess u and ur bf nids to hv a hard tok on that matter,... if u tolerate it, gal, it wud get worst.. think deeply and decide what ur heart and mind says... GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-27 21:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by tazmania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be truthful ,but many guys just like to have someone around so if she comes back there is a good chance he will go back to her.
2006-07-27 21:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he is telling you, means that he is comfortable with you and not want to hide anything between you two. However, if you feel uncomfortable, you should tell him not to prolong this; otherwise, maybe you should cool it.
2006-07-27 21:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by johndoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him. You can do better.
...you let him talk to his ex in YOUR house..?
at some point it stops being his fault and starts to be yours.
2006-07-27 21:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some self-esteem work and all of this will be simple to deal with.
2006-07-27 21:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋